Don't Be Bitter, Be Better.

in #life5 years ago

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I wonder what people gain from saying bad things their fellow humans most especially women. We are so used to bringing someone down by all means. Just because you feel you know so much about the other sister doesn't mean you should rub her name in the muds probably because you guys are no more in speaking terms.

It amazes me to know that some girls will stop at nothing until they destroy the good image of someone and what surprises me the most is that they take it to social media where the whole world can see. Why can't you both just go your separate ways in peace with trolling one another. Maturity they say is not by age but by one's behaviour.

On big brother reunion sometime last week, Ceec revealed to everyone that her fellow housemates Alex and Tobi deceived everyone when they were in the house that they were just besties when they were secretly having sex even though she knows that she was on Tv and the whole world is probably watching the show. She further revealed that it was Nina who told her about Alex and Tobi's intimacy when they were on the plane on their way back to Nigeria after the end of the show. Nina also told Ceec it was Miracle (the winner of bbnaija 2018) that told her about this too. What's the need for all this? Alex couldn't hold back her tears when Ceec made this statement and she had to leave. What will you gain from seeing another woman suffer because of you? Will it add more zeros to your cash flow? Will it increase the number of alerts you get in a day? Or better still will it increase your life span on earth?

We all should outgrow this bitter part of us and crave to be better instead. If you're not friends with each other anymore doesn't give rise to you going around d from pillar to posts revealing each other's secret. Still keep the secrets you told one another confidential and if not for anything at least for maturity sake. People are looking up to you unknown to you, what will you teach your kids when you're bitter, how would you coach them to become better and responsible citizens of the society when you care more about destroying peoples image than working on your creativity and productivity? Please let's try and live right, do not be bitter, be better. A word is enough for the wise Please.

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