Hi, the article is inspired by my thought process, so excuse me if it doesn't make sense to you or anyone.

I will explain below...
Too many people worry about what other people think or say about them and they forget to live their lives for what it really should be about.

You have to guard your mind so your inner peace is not tainted with negativity.

"Being more about yourself than others" means, you have to look out for yourself because if you don't, no one will.
We should do away with the illusion that, someone owes us anything and that includes, ensuring that we are happy.
Also, no one knows you like you, so their definition or notion about you should not be the basis by which you live your life.

If you cannot work out your happiness yourself, you will never find it hanging outside your neighbor's house for you to pick up.

Don't go throwing stones at every dog that barks.!

Stay Awesome!