Power of the words: I am sorry

dumar022 (70)in #life • 8 years ago (edited)

Is there anyone who didn't offend, insult or do something bad to others?

Of course there are people who do this all the time and they don't regret about that. We all do everything wrong, that's why we are humans. Life is turbulent and wild, the problems are unavoidable part of it. There are big differences between bad situations and real problems. When people are stressed out, they don't see those differences. And they don't see other people around, people who are hurt because the one decided to blame all for his bad situation.

You just can't lie to others and steal from them without feeling bad after that.

When I say steal, I don't mean on any material things, I mean on their self respect. Humans are fragile and sensitive and you just can't feel as they feel, you cannot feel someone's pain, you can only imagine it. And when you are mad, people around you get hurt and those people are usually people who you love the most.

When everything cools down and you are alone with your guilty conscience, you realize that you were wrong.

And you feel sorry for that. That "sorry" is eating you from the inside.

There are too many proud people who think that they are above "being sorry". There is not such a place above "being sorry". Maybe there is problem with your tongue when you are trying to speak those words. Actually, when you say it, you think that you reveal your weak side. There is no need to feel uncomfortable with these words, if you feel that you must say them, it is your duty to do so!

And there are many ways to show to others that you are sorry without saying the words.

Maybe a hug could do, or a small token of appreciation. Maybe you hurt some people so much that nothing is enough. But if you feel that you are sorry, that already means that the blame is all yours and your duty is to try make things better.