Power of the words: Bad words
No, there will not be any swearing or any bad words in this post. But this is a post about them. There is no need to be rude on the network, we are all rude outside of it. Did you know that an average person says 13000 words every day and 0.5 % - 0.7 % of that are swear words? That means, if you are not a priest or a psychopath you probably say 70 - 90 bad word every day. And I know how does it sound, but that really isn't too much! That's because the most of these words are not used to insult someone. We use them casually, as buzzwords, or, sometimes, we feel better when we say them! But that does not mean that we are allowed to swear and curse on other people just because we are angry at them! Insults have nothing to do with that.
Maybe, there's better way to explain this.
Now, imagine that you are knocking a nail into a piece of wood with your hammer. But you missed a steel nail and hit on your own finger nail, then screamed:
- ***** ** ***** ******* *******!!!
And it is OK to say that because you in that moment, on that way you are releasing your negative energy out of yourself. So that it completely justified!
But what if you are sitting in front of your house, and your neighbor is passing by and you say these words to him:
- ***** ** ***** ******* *******!!! - exact the same words as in the first case.
And you said that to him because you don't like him, you disagree with him or he did something bad. Or he is rude, too, and you are revenging to him by doing the same!
But in any case, you can't say that words to any human being because you said them recklessly in anger and your neighbor's mother has nothing to do with that. You probably never met the woman and you dare to mention her in very bad manner!
It is normal for humans to have different attitudes, it is normal for people to argue, even to fight when someone's honor, safety and life are threatened. But, when we must fight, we must do that with dignity!