Congratulations on taking the plunge and getting a car. I'm surprised you got along without one. I guess in big cities people don't really buy cars though, maybe thats the case.. Yes, you are fully right too. Helping someone who really needs it, and who uses your help and puts themselves in a better spot.. is a good feeling, a really good feeling. Then sometimes misjudgement or just caring too much leads you to helping someone who abuses your help, or becomes reliant on it. That doesn't feel good. Just have to become a better judge with time, and learn from the mistakes! Thanks for sharing