I don't have a single lesbien tendency, yet I would still prefer to look at that woman's boobs then that graph ;)
My husband and I used to play a game in college called "What will we do with it?" We were dirt poor at the time, so fancy dates were out of the question causing us to be creative. One of our regular dates consisted of buying a lottery ticket, grabbing a twelve pack of beer, hanging out in the car (to add that rebel "open container" element) and talking about all of the many things we were going to do when we won the twenty million (or whatever it happened to be at the time).
On one of these occasions, when we got to the part of who we were going to do what for, I was talking about paying off my cousin John's house and giving them a half a million on top, and something occurred to me. What if the struggles of life were a big part of what held him and his wife together? What if instead of this huge help I imagined I was being, I would actually cause the downfall of one of the cutest relationships I knew of?

It was actually the last time we had that particular date, because for me more than half the fun of it was imagining what we'd do to help others. The possibility that we could cause more grief than happiness shifted my perspective to the degree that I realized we were already playing a better game called "What can we get out of life without money?"
Incidentally, we've never stopped playing that game, lol! And I'm thinking I might make an entire post about this...if I do, I'll give you credit for the inspiration.