Postponing A Decision

Sometimes we are urged to make a decision because we are prompted to or the situation calls for it say for example someone just pop the question out of the blue in your face. There are things you can settle and yes yes or no to at that very moment. However, there are issues that you need to think through. Not all decisions were made over night or in an instant some took years before they were finally decided upon.

I am writing this post to remind myself that it is not bad to postpone making a decision. It is just right to stop and ponder or sleep on it until everything in your head is clear. The other day I was asked if I can make a decision about an opportunity. The question was made over the phone I just woke up making myself a cup of coffee. My head still spinning and could not make an answer. I know I appeared to be the most inconsiderate person I can think of. I was not prepared and I just remained quiet until today I realized and finally made that answer.

It was not easy. I wish it was easy although I will not mention in details what the issue or opportunity is. After yesterday I finally made my decision and that made me feel better now and that is important.