What Causes the Distinction Between Expectations and Reality

in #life3 years ago

Posts regarding dreams and reality abound on the internet. Our reaction is the same regardless of which of them we come across: “Here is the summation of my life!” Why does it have to be this way? Why doesn't life go the way we want it to, even if it's just for a moment?

Because this is such a subjective question, the answer we obtain will be as well.

What kind of existence do we desire? To use a silver spoon to shove everything into our mouths? Isn't it true that life is always looking out for our best interests? Should we expect all of our wishes to come true? Should everyone in our environment turn around and groan at us, oblivious to how we treat them?

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This hands-on approach invites us to daydream. We go away from rationality as a result of our dreams. Our perception is influenced by the mental images we create. We slip into this imagination-created trap, exaggerating ourselves, our talents, ideas, or skills, and setting unrealistic expectations. Naturally, when things do not go as planned in real life, we become depressed. As you can see, the most serious issue in our lives is the mental image we have of how life should be.

Walking on two or four legs does not change the fact that we must seek refuge in expectations as living things.

Is this, then, a terrible thing? Yes, on paper. But we don't live in a paper world.

A life lived without expectations is similar to that of a saint who lives in his shell and separates himself from the rest of the world. You don't need to read this post if that's what you're looking for.

The fundamental challenge is: how can you strike a balance between expectations and reality? When should expectations end and reality take their place?

The solution is buried in this sentence, which will make anyone who speaks it appear intelligent: It depends on the circumstances. Depending on how you perceive events and how you push the boundaries when bringing two opposing poles together, the situation may alter. More anticipation equals more suffering, powerlessness, and rage.

By lowering your expectations, you'll be able to confront the harsh reality of expectations and act more logically and pragmatically. You learn to focus on your main aim and not get caught up in the details of occurrences in this way.

It's not easy to lower our expectations of people. But it'll undoubtedly be a step toward regaining control of your life. If we compare your life to a horse-drawn carriage trip, lowering your expectations will put you in command of the carriage, and your tightly grasped horses will heed your commands and eventually carry you to ultimate success.

Remember that no one can make you feel anything. The worst mistake would be to blame external factors for everything that goes wrong in a scenario or relationship. Everything that happens to you is out of your control. It is, however, up to you to decide how you feel about the matter. This is a concept that successful individuals believe in and follow.

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Of course, everyone has had a number of experiences in their lives where things did not go as planned. It's natural for you to get upset in these instances. What you must do is not to become engulfed in the melancholy for an extended period of time and to swiftly awaken.

“If your balance is off, do not stay in this off balance for longer than is necessary; only those who can re-establish the balance over and over will become specialists in this field.” This equilibrium blurs the stark distinction between expectations and reality, paving the door for a more fulfilling life.


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