Don't Just Live to Pay the Bills

in #life6 years ago (edited)

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The modern society's promise of comfort and security can be alluring. People have evolved, or not, and have been using their fullest potential to this day. There's no going back to the primitive for sure. It could have been a perfect world but thanks to humans. The problem is that people have sacrificed their own freedom and happiness for this change. Throughout the history, you've seen the colonized, slaves and workers who sacrificed their lives in exchange for progress and development. The developed and forever developing world were born. The comfort you enjoy now has been paid by the blood of other people. The price of modern civilization. It is easier to be blind in order to move forward. But in exchange for the development, people now lack empathy. Perhaps you were not born yet or you are not aware of what is going on in other parts of the world or how big countries live off the war industry or how the international corporations get richer by taking advantage of the poorer nations. Empathy diminishes with distance and it is hard to feel if you are too sheltered or haven't suffered in your life. With that said, I am not a huge fan of modern civilization and the people in it, as it did nothing but harm. All it does right now is to favor the dominant forces of the society. All it does it to take advantage of the weak, the disadvantaged, and the people at the bottom of the food chain. I just don't see humanity and ethics in modern capitalism.

If you are just an ordinary person, meaning, you work to live and you don't sit around basking in wealth, then be careful what you sign up for. Big corporations around the world only get richer off the ordinary citizens. I'm talking about the power, internet, cable, computer, real estate, financial and mobile companies. They are continuously screwing people up on a massive scale and that's how they maximize profits. I believe this is not just a fantasy in my head or a mere conspiracy theory, this is just how the system works and it is happening everywhere in the world.

I had a think about this when I'm trying to let go of the bills I signed up for, surely, it sucks not to have some modern convenience in my life. I have to find ways not to be dependent and be able to control my own life. I realized that some things are just giving me more stress and anxiety.

It is all about distraction these days. People will sign up for cable tv, so they can sit, watch some movies and be unhealthy. They would prefer to have sleek smartphones to impress others so they would sign up for some contract with the mobiles companies. They would prefer to live in a posh suburb so they would rather pay the house all their lives. People are happier to have high-speed internet than to spend more time outdoors with friends and family. They would like some instant money and purchases so they get credit cards. People prefer the easy to worthwhile. Materialism does not necessarily equate to happiness so you still see people who feel unhappy and unfulfilled despite their wealth and possessions.

If you are not aware of how these big companies ruin people's lives then you are only perpetuating their unethical ways unknowingly. Making the few richer while the rest are on hamster wheels designed especially for them. Few people up there watch you go around and round until you feel totally depleted that you begin an existential journey. You start questioning the real meaning of life. The reality is that these corporations don't really care about you, but you care so much about them. They would rather keep you paying for life than give you back your freedom. There's no profit for them if you are living the life you want. There's no profit in freedom. You cannot travel or move somewhere else because you are tied to some company? You cannot quit your job because you are paying the bills or mortgage? You cannot start your own business because you are scared of competition? You get butthurt if someone criticizes your system and make you aware of its BS? You are tied to your state. Tied to your material possessions. Tied to your house. Tied to the illusion of security. Tied to the all-too-comfortable. Tied to your tribe. Tied to your culture. Tied to your lifestyle. Tied to your dogma. Therefore, you are a slave too. A modern slave you are.

Living your life on your own terms is hard. Freedom is hard. You choose the easy way for a price. Your life. Wondering why the modern society does not teach you how to be self-sustainable? Why are the alternatives not heavily promoted or advertised? You are not taught to enjoy life's simple pleasures because social media is the new religion. You thought you are better than the rest just because you are vegan? But in reality, you participate in the destruction of the environment on a massive scale. You voted for leaders who dropped bombs that kill children. You watch the royal family's events knowing that with just one sign of a check they could have easily eliminated world hunger. You cannot have your own energy or food source and spend more time with your loved ones simply because there's no profit in it. Haven't you realized by now that it is all about PROFIT? This is how the dog-eat-dog world operates. Right now it's all about distraction. Don't expect the system to care for your well-being. Don't expect it to care for your family. Don't expect it to teach you how to be independent otherwise you will no longer make the few richer that support it. Don't expect it not to kill other people. Don't expect it not to kill you soon.

Don't live just to pay the bills because the big guys you support will not even care about you in the end, out of the millions of people who do the same thing in this world. The system doesn't give a shit about you because you are not special. You are just one of the many who can get screwed up if you can no longer pay the rent, mobile phones, internet, mortgage, banks and many other big companies that taught you the illusion of comfort and security. If the modern society's promise of convenience is really the answer then how come many people are still dissatisfied and unhappy? Why not instead of living just to pay the bills, instead of perpetuating the system that enslaves humanity, why not choose the not-easy, the challenging, yet meaningful, fulfilling and a happier life?

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Good evenimg first i must say i have been enjoying your post an i must say i am a fan an i honor i took the time to post a very special post a poem to you for ou r way of life i hope you enjoy an may one day i may see you in travel's be well lovely

Whether someone is sad or happy, the system simply works well :)

Don't live just to pay the bills because the big guys you support will not even care about you in the end.

No one cares about anyone rather people care about the things one posseses. People care about rich guys because they are "rich".

You thought you are better than the rest just because you are vegan? But in reality, you participate in the destruction of the environment on a massive scale.

Explain please

Empathy diminishes with distance

So true!

Nice suggestion but in my 2 cent opinion people see happiness in materialistic things may be to keep their name high in the society or for pump and show purpose. There are race in between people of all ages who have the best gadgets with out knowing they are making burden of debt by these competitions. Companies don't have heart they now the one language the language of money. So you are good and respectable as long as you will fulfill the demand otherwise they will go after you, so it is best to live simple life and search happiness inside you not with things or from other people

Why its always 2 cents? Why not opinion for a dime? One cent suggestion?

You pointed out a valid point why not one cent. May be it's due to English Phrase 2 cent opinion means not a worthy opinion. it's worth only 2 cents. English is not my native language but in our language we used 2 kori means 2 cents that's why i write 2 cents I hope so same rule apply in English language too that's why 2 cents is famous

people see happiness in materialistic things may be to keep their name high in the society or for pump and show purpose.

I agree. Most people get things to impress others or to get some status.

Today we see that, people only work and work only to obtain a status in society but at the end of the day we only end up tired and often disappointed and when we realize time passes and we do not enjoy life

Nicely said. This is a massive problem people are programmed for convenience. The best way is to shop as ethically as you can if a place does not follow your principles sack them off. You'll will probably pay more but can live knowing you are doing the right thing, knowing you are making an effort to change this corporate take over. Educate people but do't preach as some can't afford to pay this little extra as the system purposely makes the bad crap cheaper. Thankfully around me the big chain shops have not taken over YET, well the big four food shops have! But I refused to use them, sometimes going without good I like as I can't afford the alternative.

Also think ethical about where you work and what you do, I would never work for a company did unethical things. I would be prepare to loose the money for this reason. My work is not as sustainable as I would like but do good things so it a balance.

I think the key is too think about where you shop, what companies you use. Because buy using them YOU support their ethics and actions! Its a hard balance to achieve but small steps will brake the strong hold 💯🐒

The best way is to shop as ethically as you can if a place does not follow your principles sack them off.

This is true. Now my move to a small town would let me do this and just support farmer's market 100%. There are no big shops and fast food around as well.

One way is to stop supporting unethical companies.

Also think ethical about where you work and what you do, I would never work for a company did unethical things.

This is why I did not go back to my corporate job. I'm not making a lot at the moment but I feel happy and free now.

The best way you might not be pulling in loads of money but you can sleep well knowing you are doing the right think. This will bring a better sense of wellbeing to you and with these small steps hopefully our lives will begin to change for the better attracting the positive 💯🐒

"You get butthurt if someone criticizes your system and make you aware of its BS?"

I think this is by design. People are told that if they keep working just a little harder they will "win" the game but the odds are stacked against them. The sad thing is they defend the system that keeps them in debt and without power because they think they have a fair chance to make it to the top.

because they think they have a fair chance to make it to the top.

Yeah because we can't just take away their hope to get ahead. And when they make it to the top, they'll do everything to defend the status/wealth - whatever it takes.

Hahaha...this life is really amazing. The thing that makes it worse is that there are even people who have no purpose for life. All their lives are full of coincidence.

Our life needs attention, care, objective and focus to really fulfil our dreams.

Cheers @diabolika.

Slavery has perpetuated itself through time. It was only an illusion that it end or just a breath of fresh air. Today's slavery seems even more hard to endure as it is both physical and mental, but the tricky part is that they attracted into it mentally. As you mentioned for some shitty gadgets and fake pleasures we are available to work our asses day and night to pay them. And with every year they are more expensive. I haven't heard once about a new iphone to be cheaper than the previous generation. I'm embracing more a kind of materialism as I don't like at all this rat race called modern society.
Hopefully cryptocurrencies and apps like Steemit will help me make a living without "the modern hustle", idiot bosses, dead lines and off course the stress involved.
We are the only creature on earth that has to endure constant stress by simply living and paying bills. No other animal is that much "en guard" like us. And we've done that by ourselves when wishing for more by paying more.

Today's slavery seems even more hard to endure as it is both physical and mental, but the tricky part is that they attracted into it mentally.

True words.

Hopefully cryptocurrencies and apps like Steemit will help me make a living without "the modern hustle", idiot bosses, dead lines and off course the stress involved.

I live off Steemit and cryptos at the moment because my cost of living is pretty cheap. I hope you can too, good luck!

Thanks. I'm pretty cheap also :)

There's no profit in freedom.

So true this. As is the rest of your post:-) "If you work for a living, then why kill yourself with work" and at the same time feed the monster that's keeping you from being truly free..?

You ask the right questions, @diabolika; let's find the answers together :-)

You ask the right questions, @diabolika; let's find the answers together

Sure! Thanks for dropping by.

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