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RE: Understanding Polyamory: The Five Elements of a Relationship
I believe that every relationship shoud have every aspect take care of, how to live without sex? The conection is deeper with sex, without we say no to a natural thing that we have to do, is not chosable, is in our nature to have sex, like food and water
And I would like to add this: if a person cannot live without sex, thar would be bad news for my husband and I as he just left for three weeks on an assignment.
I disagree. I've been in a relationship with someone asexual. The connection was deep and committed and and strong, but sex was just not part of the relationship. Sex is not mandatory, and assuming everyone needs sex for a deep connection is just wrong.
I did not said that everyone need sex for a deep conection, everyone need sex because is in our nature and you just can't deny that :)
And yes it is, you will probably see this with time, without it is something wrong, do you know about the needs of Maslow pyramid?
Think about them a little and you will see :)
Beside this sex shows that you are full of pasion and have that energy of doing things and beside this, who don't like sex ? :))) now really? That is wrong :)
Thank you :)
Hmmm. Saying that asexuality died not exist is like telling a gay person he's just confused. Or like telling someone with a gender dissociation that they are not allowed to feel the way they feel because they were born with/without a penis... Life is never just black and white.
I am not denying it. Asexuality exists. And asexual people often suffer because of misconceptions like yours. I have a friend who can be passionate, emotional, energetic and loving, just doesn't enjoy having a penis inserted in her. Is that wrong? Why?
Also, Maslow does not have sex in the pyramid. Just FYI.
Glad we had this conversation :)
Take care!
Thank you!