It must require a lot of strength and will to stay so positive and I admire you for that. I find it so depressing when doctors can't find what's wrong with you or they can't treat it well. I was also that kind of person who would ask the ones suffering if they tried this or that but I soon understood that this is not what these people need to hear. They did try everything and I'm surely not someone who knows more than them. A friend of mine suffers for more than 2 years and you wouldn't believe but doctors still don't know what it is. I'm not going to go into details but the result is that she can't work at all, she was told she's not going to be able to work in the future BUT they don't know what it is. These are two controversial statements and you can imagine what it does with her mental state. But she is like you.. trying to stay positive and simply hoping/believing that it will get better..
STAY STRONG! :)
Wow, I am sorry to hear of your friend as well :( it's a delicate dance to be ok with all of this while dealing with the conditions, but it is our only option. Be sad and depressed with what is controlling our lives, or accept it as a hurdle and part of what makes us. Smile or be sad, the situation remains the same. Just know that no matter what happens, your friend is still the same person as before the problems. They want to do everything the same way as before, but something invisible is preventing them. It's frustrating, but understandable when attempted. Our brains control everything, emotional control, pain control, memory function, etc. Be kind to your mind and that's the best we can do. I'm sending you and your friend all kinds of positive vibes, get him/her to add me on Instagram @HippieRaysWays for inspiration and to chat if they want. Have a great day filled with smiles ❤️