Thank you Deb! I believe we are alike in those ways also. I used to say a mantra which helped but will try some suggestions from you and others. I appreciate the input from everyone. The first time I spoke publicly about that teacher was a couple years ago. People on the alumni were singing her praises online when a boy I knew spoke of what she did to him. My sister and I then shared what we experienced to let him know that he was not alone. He had been in therapy as well over what she did to him. He became a teacher himself..a better teacher. The alumni removed our posts..go figure..but it meant a lot to him that we spoke up also. I believe Karma will find them both eventually! xoxo ((big hugs to you))