A Guy's Guide to Speaking With Girls - Part 1
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Hey Guys!
Do you ever have a weird experience when you try to speak with ladies?
Do you ever feel you must be speaking another language?
Or worst of all, does the lady misunderstand your kind compliment?
Well, maybe my post will help you.... read on...
Telling a Lady You Love Her
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Saying 'I love you' is a really big deal for everyone who says it genuinely. For guys, saying I love you is often enough and they wait for her to say it back.
Not so for the lady! 'I love you' is the very beginning for ladies. They want that magic moment to continue. They want to know what it is about them that makes you love them. They want to know about the instant you realised that you love them.
The best way to tackle this is to think about it beforehand so some answers will surface when she starts probing.
It's the quickest way out of what could be an awkward situation at an awkward time!
Ladies Telling You About a Problem
When ladies have a problem nagging at their mind, they often want to tell you about it but, with you being so busy, the lady has to grab her chance when she can. That means it may come out in a jumble rather than in logical points.
Remember that the lady in question probably doesn't expect you to sort the problem out. She just wants someone to listen as if it matters.
Listen to her and say you'll think about it. After half an hour or so, raise the subject again and she may well have thought of a solution herself. You can always say you are stumped by the problem. She'll like you even more for taking her problem so seriously!
There are two ideas to try out. I'll post some more in Part 2. I hope you enjoy trying them out!
Just someone understand ladies or the weather.. :D
Haha, you are right!
I think that talking to women is an art, difficult to understand... unless you are another woman, we are definitely super different from men in terms of thoughts and feelings, there are endless points to touch on this subject that we would make many publications... excuse me if I have errors use translator...
Thank you for your comment.
Informative post very nice
thank you
It is true for some and not for some.
I was in a gettin' to know stage by someone who had a huge crush on me. I tried, really hard, to give him a chance but he blew it away twice. No efforts at all, just words from his mouth all the time. So i decided to just end it by cutting off our communication.
So, more than words, efforts are important.
That is true :)
Thanks for the advice. 🙂
It is not necessary for you.
Aww, thanks for being so sweet Dee. 😊