Wow, I'm not going to analyze anyone else and I wasn't there, but I will say... "wow." On the other hand, you are right to not worry about fixing things that can't be fixed. Life just works out the way it does some times and it isn't for us to fix anyone else. In their mind we are the ones that need fixing. Just be true to yourself and don't be afraid to let go. You are extremely talented and driven and certainly one of my favorite writers on the platform. Maybe I'm biased, but I think you can do better than whatever happened there. I find the parting comment to be the most particularly disturbing, but some people feel the need to compare themselves to others. Patience is a virtue that we all seek more of in this life. Hopefully no one goes ducking under counter tops and getting into fetishes over coffee next time. Hang in there!