A letter from a 55-year-old father to a future son-in-law

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child.

Tomorrow, you will take my daughter away from me. I have to say something to you.

I am fifty-five years old, my daughter has grown up, she met you at the most beautiful time, and she finally didn't need my protection. But I just want to say a word to you: protect her well and make her marriage happy and happy.

I was my father when I was 25 years old. I saw her for the first time. It was so small, soft, and my heart was very distressed. Listening to the doctor is a daughter, I am very happy, I only want a child like your mother-in-law. Someone asked me if I like my daughter or my son. I said, I want a daughter, like her mother.

Ask yourself, I am a respectful wife and a child who loves children. I regard them as the most important family members of my life. I hope that you can do the same.

As a man to get married, you have to figure out one thing:

"You and my daughter's home are your home. The parents' home has nothing to do with your little family. Nothing compares to your small family. For your young couple, parents are outsiders, you two It is mutual dependence."

Parents can't follow you all the time. At the moment you both decide to get married, you are the ones who are most important to each other.

Only if you really put the other person in your heart is irreplaceable, you can take responsibility for taking care of a family. You are a man, not a boy.

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My daughter was raised by my father.

From the moment she was born, I held her little girl and looked at her mother. I decided to do the umbrella for their mother. Your mother-in-law, your wife, our family of three is a small family, they are the most important people to me.

I still remember that my daughter smiled at me and called her father.

What is the greatest happiness in the world? For a man, it is not how great your career is, but the most important person around you.

I like my daughter to spoil me. I grew up with her, took her out to play, and taught her to know the world.

In my opinion, I have never believed that the most important thing for women is marriage. I hope to educate my daughter into an independent person, to experience and experience life, to find the one who is good to her, and the two together.

I said that my daughter is a little lover of my father. I naturally don't want her to suffer a bit.

Sometimes I feel that this life is really fast. She was still so small, and she is going to marry now.

Dad will remind her daughter to marry at the age of thirty. I have never urged me to wait for her to find the right person. She found it and found you.

I still remember that my daughter talked to me once. She said, "Dad, I think I found someone like you."

I am a little happy and a little lost. Happy is that my daughter has grown up. Losing is that she is leaving me.

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Child, can you feel the heart of an old father?

When the father only hopes that his daughter can be happy. I hope that you are the one who can replace her and give her happiness. When you grow up, you marry to form a new family, and you are the most important people to each other.

I am going to give my daughter to you, I hope that you can take on the responsibility of the family together with her.

If you have a fight, the two will solve it themselves. Let's be a man, let them be women. You think about it, you don't want to provoke your mother to be angry, don't want to quarrel with your mother, why do you have to quarrel with your wife? Man, no face to his wife, no face.

I only have one point: I hope that you are good, not allowed to bully my daughter. At any time, my mother and her are her backing.

You will also be parents in the future, and you should be able to appreciate our pains as parents.

I hope that my daughter will be happy with you. If she is pregnant, you have to look good; when she has a baby, you have to be alive. It is not easy to be a woman. I have to endure too much suffering in my life. When my father is hurting her.

Our men should love their wives and respect women.

You think about it, your wife will experience the same bitterness as your mother. She has to pay a lot for this family. Why aren't men good for them?

In the future, if you get married, you are a man. Good to work hard for your little family, we only want parents to be able to be happy, to be happy, to have a companion when they are old.

Nvwa, let's make a brother deal for both men: Be nice to her, pamper her and care for her.

Finally, I hope that you will be happy, go hand in hand, and be accompanied by the old.

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