Is the loneliness of a person enjoying or being helpless?

Why do more and more people begin to enjoy solitude?
Is it just to enjoy or to be alone?
A person to go shopping, a person to see a movie, a person to eat, a person to walk, a person to see the scenery, so many years only their own most want to know what they want!
Sometimes it can also be changeable and can accompany some people, but at that time, it felt like a person. Very good, very free.
Most of the time is lonely, when some of the time really want to tell, find others do not care, there is no desire to say, over time, used to this feeling, and also afraid of this feeling.
For example, get along in the same space, Mingming to get along so long, and then in fact, you are the person, but also good to get along, but it is always so many times, only you one, because their words, such as where they went to play, where to do what, they will never call you, and finally you, you, and finally you It will be found that, in fact, so many people come and share with them, and they do not understand you, but, but they will not call you, and let you be there alone.
I think a person is not lonely. The loneliness I understand is a psychological state. When you feel that no one knows you, when you want to do something and can't find a person to accompany you, looking at the coming and coming people feel that the world is so mostly without a place of their own, I think it is lonely.
In fact, life, say long not long to say short is not short, it is to find so one or two can and themselves, have the same hobby and interest, have been walking down the people, it is very good.