I’m sure the majority of people want to be nice to one another but the minority overrules it with their brazen and loud obnoxious attitude
It’s like looking at reviews of a restaurant the majority of people who had a nice time wont pair a positive review they just had a good time but the off chance the customer had a bad time you going to be damn sure it’s going to be all they talk about
Being nice can also be a powerful tool even more so than money or force or authority! Mutual respect goes a long way