Gall Sharon, its None of your Business!
Sometimes we make choices that are none of anyone else's gawd dam business. But sometimes this is what we tell ourselves, even when our choice DOES have an effect on another being's life.
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Very cool point, @ cerise, "...it's never really is as simple as: It's My choice...." For each, many aspects to Consider... Thanks for pointing out so many. Because, it IS easy to take that road that it's "My business" and Not consider how our decisions can impact many others...