Minimizing your connection with the outside world
Emotional violence, which is likely to cause severe damage to your psychology, is often unnoticed. The reason for this is wrong coding. He loves me because he is jealous of me, restricts me.
Because, jealousy, restraint in relations, and the unconditional obedience of one side to another, unfortunately, for us, the expression of love is met innocently as a form of ownership.
However, in the relations that are healthy and respectful to each other, there should be no such actions which would discredit the partner's self-esteem and self-respect. Protecting someone you care about doesn't mean that you don't let him out or makeup.
There may be many reasons for this violence in a subconscious that a human being may be practicing without even being aware of it, but the main reasons for this are the lack of inner peace and low self-esteem and fear of losing.
They want to minimize the possibility of being affected and conscious by the environment by minimizing your connection with the outside world. They don't like your attention, your appreciation, because then they think you can quit.
If things don't go the way they want, if you can't keep you under control, the insults come in first, and with the sentences you've built, it decreases your respect for yourself. This allows you to reduce your dreams and goals. The goal is that you depend on it, that you live within it.
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Emotional violence already starts within the family. Family finds it normal to count on loyalty based on nothing more as the blood bond.
If people (or situations) are consuming all your energy it is way better to live without them/it as being with them/it.
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