The first chapter of the military storehouse for the teaching of chicks: the practice of opening

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When it comes to convention, all the students who are in contact with them know that practice is the pioneer and knocking of girls.

And metaphorical. Popular to say, is that we use in practice, and MM communication to routine, as a general martial arts novels

Various martial arts cheats, got these cheats, doesn't mean you can only martial arts, how to correctly get the secret

By using mastery, is the key success factors.

Most of the bobbins who often browse the Internet are familiar with the man's "Handbook" from the original English version.

After N many people to gradually sort out the Chinese version, as the global science circle jiuyinzhenjing, has been the global science of love

A good man is in pursuit of it. It is undeniable that the fan is indeed a typical figure and a successful person in the western PUA.

The handbook is also the essence of the Convention, but the differences between Chinese and Western cultures make it impossible for men to do so on many occasions in China

Use it for us. In order to better illustrate this point, give you an example:

One of our bobbin is in contact with a MM. At the time of QQ chatting at night, MM says to take a bath, so I'm going to take a bath.

The bobbin thought of a man's practice. In the process of chatting, he felt that MM was more open and used.

The original practice, the result...

Male:

There is an investigation

MM:

What

Male:

80% of the masturbation women are masturbating (in fact, I also want to say 80% will look in the mirror, but I want to try this effect, "

Results ~ ~ (~) 20% of the singing

MM:

You're sick!

Male:

... (embarrassment)

You're sick!

MM:

You are perverted!

Male:

Not to finish the conclusion, the online survey...

MM:

Roll!

Part, finally established a comfortable feeling vanished.

In fact, if this practice is used in European and American countries, the effect will be very good, because the sex culture is very popular there, men and women.

All the things like SY are very dull, but in China, thousands of years of culture have made it possible to do it, not or not.

It's hard to say the export. Even with the spread of western culture and the reform and opening up, people are no longer regarded as great scourges, but the girl

The son is generally not unscrupulous to have to talk to a man about sex, even if she really wants something to happen in her heart...

In addition, some of the other practices mentioned by men are not applicable in China, for example, if they are used in China as follows.

Don't you think it's weird?

"God, did you see two women fighting outside, and one of them dropped out of the fake milk

Blahblahblah "

"I saw one of the most lovely children on the road yesterday, and he turned the finger at me."

"I have a big question to ask you, do you use a floss before brushing your teeth or after brushing your teeth?"

Anyway, I feel particularly awkward. And I believe that the accosted HB will feel unnatural. These seem to be no

The opening of interest, because it does not apply to the situation in China, will expose your purpose to the target of being accosted.

Therefore, in order to perfect the pick up in China, we should develop the Chinese characteristics of the blister practice. The so-called master

In the folk, a lot of PUA on the Internet have developed a language practice that is in line with the national conditions of China, for the cause of our study.

They contribute to their heart and soul. In order not to let these classic Chinese rule also silently silence, in order to give the first global study

The bobbins provide a shortcut to master the practice of speech. We decide to collect and collate the various classic conventions on the forum.

These conventions are compiled at the stage of development. At the same time, the waste test encountered in the process of blister, and how to be correct

Pressure, how to do cold reading and other typical topics to give the usual solution, I hope this book will bring you a harvest.

Chapter one: the practice of opening

This is the definition of the opening white. The so-called "open white" is used to be used with one or a group of strangers.

A set of words, questions, or stories for a person to engage in a conversation. It is difficult to begin with all things, only to pass the opening point,

You can go on on this road.

First, the structure of the open white

1. the available props next to the target people - prepare to open the topic or open up, come and go.

The characters start the conversation.

1. time limit, after talking about the opening of the white, give yourself a time limit. For example, "I have a little question."

"I have to stay for a moment, and I'm going to meet my friend right away." Of course, though you say that, it doesn't mean the opening.

You have to go after the white. If you don't make a mistake, no one will ask you how you don't go.

1. words, answer why you ask this question. After she answers your questions, be sure to say

"I ask you this question because of..." This is the word stem, after the opening of the white must be certain! Add the words.

This is the basic three part of the opening white.

Look at it, it's not enough to use the open practice of optics. The place where the white essence is open is in and twelve.

True tactic: the listener unintentionally, the speaker intends at large the better to apprehend him!

Two. It needs to be paid attention to

1. don't talk too fast so that people can hear it.

1. voice can not be too small, or is a lack of confidence in the performance.

1. the body must be ready to leave from time to time, and don't stand in the middle of them.

1. time limits and words must be used.

When strangers come into contact, most people are thinking about 2 questions:

1. why did he talk to me? (by answering the words of a terrier)

1. when will he go? (by the body language and time limit to go)

Only by making good use of the mind can be approached and accosted in the process of the initiative, otherwise, a

It is unavoidable.

Three. How to avoid anxiety

One of the fundamental reasons for the fear of accosted is that this is a very unreasonable line.

Well, you think of a sudden stranger talking to you and then asking for your phone number, it's not very strange, it's very strange.

Is it unreasonable to say that if we can rationalize the behavior in the subconscious mind, our accosted anxiety

It's gone. Strong brother accosted anxiety, it is best to find a wingman together, in addition, you have to know,

In your hand the moment, all over the country there are many brothers in hand, is, a person's behavior is not

It's reasonable, but a lot of people do such a thing together, that's all right. So before each accosted,

Think of a brother who is fighting with us all over the country. You are not alone!

This is a way to lighten accosted anxiety in mind, and a better way of doing it is heat.

Before you start the conversation, you can go to a few MM questions, just ask the way, don't have a number, ask a few more.

Until you get into the state, you can start to take it. You'll find that after you do it, you'll have a better hand.

The nervous mood has also been relieved.

Four. The open practice of every place

In the process of summing up the opening practice, I have thought of a variety of classification methods, but also think.

It is thought that it is the most practical way to sum up the open practice according to the place. Of course, this Convention manual is hard to take

All places are included. After the publication of this customary manual, you can continue to contribute to the opening of other places.

White practice.

1. Study room

Novice accosted from the fixed place, because in a fixed place, MM is not so strong,

The self-study room in a fixed place is a good choice, but the disadvantage is the quality of MM in the self-study room.

It's very high, but it's a place to practice as a beginner. After all, it's hard to go to the street at the beginning. It's difficult.

The degree is too big, it is easy to be difficult, and slowly improve yourself.

There are several fixed routines in the study room:

(1). Borrow pen, paper, transparent glue (anyway you can borrow on her table), this is the initial period,

The original method approached the study room, never take over his brother could use that in the MM and self

There is a buffer between yourself and a paving for the next number. The main method of operation is to find out what to do

There is the most beautiful woman in a self-study room. After aiming at the goal outside the door, there are no vacancies near the target or behind the target.

Space is the best, no, find a back seat to sit at first, watch the situation around the target at any time, once there is

Empty, take up the horse's bag. After sitting down can borrow, borrow, and MM can find common.

Cut in the topic, such as the books on the MM table, you have read, or you have taken a course, in a word, no words.

Talk, 5 to 10 minutes to talk about its one or two sentence, pay attention to the reflection of MM, if MM reflects the cold,

It is better to get the number as soon as possible, so that it will not affect people's learning. If the reflection is good, we can go deep into the topic.

MM tidy up things, ready to leave, the number, the general will be given.

(2). Strip flow. You can write this on the note: I think your hair is very good, classmate.

It seems that you are very well preserved, want to ask your hair care tips, and then write on the phone, if MM sees you in the eye.

She will text you, if not, talk to a common point. The paper can be used together with the loan paper.

The fruit is better.

(3). Direct opening. For target MM, go to MM when you go out to pick up a phone or drink water at MM.

Next, say directly, "classmate, I just saw you looking." Book, you are learning. Is it? " It's just that

Yatter. Or, just say, "I just noticed you in the study room, you feel a good temperament, can you know?"

As long as you look good, you can take a few words for a few words.

(4) invite MM to show you on campus. You can take a bag and go to another school at the weekend.

Find that kind of school with a lot of girls. At the weekend, MM is generally less in the study room, choosing the target from it.

When the target is found, sit back directly.

"Are you in this school, classmate?"

"Yes."

"I found that your school has a good view. I came here for the first time."

"Yes, which school are you?"

"I am. School, will you be busy? "

"Okay, what?"

"Oh, I came to your school for the first time. I don't know if I could take me around."

"Oh, I am."

In fact, as long as you have a strong state of mind, it does not seem to be indecent, and nothing is impossible.

1. Library

The method of operation of the library is the same as the self-study room. If MM finds a book in the library, take it slowly.

Get close to the goal, take a book near the target, pay attention to what MM's book is, and make it together with MM

Topic of conversation。

However, it is best to pay attention to whether MM is a person or a boyfriend, if he meets a boyfriend.

You can laugh at his boyfriend, "your girlfriend, good eye," and talk to his boyfriend on a topic.

A few sentences are withdrawn. The beauty of the library is basically with a boyfriend, which is a bit depressed.

1. The canteen

In the cafeteria, it is best to find a single target. Both of them are not very good to cut in, as for the entry point.

From the beginning of the dish, take a meal and sit next to MM. "What's the food you eat?"

Ah, anyway, "a la carte meihuazhaohua, Xialiao, chat more can better pull.

4, the campus Pavilion, etc.

There are a lot of bower in the school, a little stool, and a lot of MM like reading and reading English.

What, this we can normally open, "what do you read, you are one of the big ones,"

This is the work ", for these learning and working MM can talk about some learning methods, life, ideal, these words.

Questions.

1. Bookstore

The bookstore is also a very easy place to borrow books and talk to MM. The usual routine is to see

The target MM, close to the target MM, look at the book near, see if MM is a person, and what book to see,

Look at the specific situation of MM, and then start, there are several ways to start:

(1). "What book are you looking at, watching so much, it looks good?"

(2). "Look at you, you're full of reading. I'll take a look at some books. There's not a lot of books recently."

Look at it. "

(3). "You also like to read this book. I have read this book several times, and every time I see it has a new one.

Ideas "

(4). "Ah, you like to read this type of book, it looks like you don't look like it."

It's basically all through the book and then to other topics. But don't talk for too long, after all

The bookstore is the place to read, for more than 10 minutes, you can collect the number. The bookstore is a bit depressed.

Can only take a few MM, that point, a lot, do not do well when you take another MM by the time to be a MM

I saw it。

1. On the road to the campus

(1). Ask the supermarket to start. First of all, you have to find out where the school supermarket is, and then leave the supermarket.

When you see the target, you have to make sure that she is going to the supermarket.

The direction to go, this can be on, the opening white as follows:

"Where is the supermarket, classmate?"

"Oh, it's right."

(pretend not to hear it clearly) "you say this is too abstract,"

"Well, let me take you in the past, but it's on the way."

Then you can chat up the air and go to the supermarket and collect the number, "I feel you're full,"

Make a friend ", take out a mobile phone, must show a natural and natural, certainly not necessarily the supermarket, the library

Ah, the canteen, it's all right

(2). The training class opens. This has been used several times, the same way as the supermarket, the specific dialogue is as follows:

"Classmate, are you in this school?"

"Yes."

"I hear you have a school. The training class, you know where it is. "

"Oh, it's probably."

"Do you have time? I'm not very familiar with your school. Is it convenient to take a road?"

(3). Direct opening. Pretty girls are generally chased, on the road to take a hit is normal, and

At school, you will find that the more beautiful girls are, the easier it is to take them, in their words, that is

"It's not just a friend. It's normal."

Be brave and go straight up: "Hello, I just didn't notice you, I felt you were full of temperament,"

Can you understand it, "is this simple, as long as the performance of the generous not to be indecent, the general will get the number.

It's better for you to talk about this way, because it's so obvious that it's so obvious.

It's better to go straight to the number.

1. On the bus

On the bus, a lot of people feel embarrassed, so many people, very disgraceful, but you think,

They can't be responsible for you, only you can be responsible for yourself, because you are worried about other eyes and lose recognition.

Don't you feel sorry for the opportunity to know your favorite girl, think of them as an audience and see how you are looking

It's done. If there are few people on the car, a lot of people are embarrassed to go directly to the target and feel that it is too much.

It's obvious that I don't want to think of a way to make her feel that I'm not coming to accosted her, I think.

It's so torturing, why, why, I meant to know you, I just let you know it clearly.

Do you like it, you can make friends, don't want it, it doesn't matter, there's a lot of beauty. So watch it on the bus

Right, come on, sit next to her and sit next to her. I usually ask her where she is, and then the city of Liaocheng

Some kind of customs, get off soon and collect the number.

1. On the square

First of all, you have to observe first, sitting next to the goal is not her friend, because the square is a lot of people.

Many people who don't know are likely to sit together and have to get a clear picture of the situation.

The general way to start is to sit near the target and begin to make eye contact with the target, if the other person is in contact with the target.

In contact with my eyes, I smile and nodded. If the goal is back, then go straight and open.

Start talking. If the goal is to give a disdain look, the man still goes, and it is expected to be waiting for her boyfriend. In the ride

When his eye contact is very important, touch your eyes again, the probability of success will be much larger.

1. A cafeteria or a cafe

In a restaurant or a cafe, a table with a target has an empty chair (a movable chair).

Do people have? "The targets usually say no (they think you just want to take an empty chair somewhere else;"

After a bright smile, he sat down and said, "my friend is here in a few minutes. I'll be with you."

Low risk, high return. They can't leave at once, nor can they drive you away in deportment. as long as

You can capture the interest of one of the women in one or two minutes (not necessarily the interest of the target, or it can be

Her friends), you can get into their group.

1. Bar

Notice before: if MM sits on the bar chair, watch where her bag is and cut it.

Remember to close from the other side, otherwise it is likely to be a.

You: it looks like this is a lonely single (close to, next to her, don't do it first).

MM: what?

You: I just saw that several of the guests in this position were drunk and left by a person. The chairs were imitated.

The Buddha was cursed by loneliness

MM: why, do you want to break the curse for me?

You: (sit down) look carefully at the color of your dress.

MM:.

You: a girl's skirt was just the same as you (NEG, pay attention to the negative stimulus)

MM: the same skirt?

You: but don't worry too much, the same clothes, more beautiful on you (IOI, and then use it quickly.

Praise the turning point)

MM: you're so funny

You: (it's the best time for a Kino, can then be brought to the deck)

The street is put in the end, because the beauty is the most in the street, so the street is to be conquered.

Divide it according to whether the target is moving.

Stationary target:

When you see a goal in front of you, and the other person doesn't move a lot for the time being (for example, or others, or

In the rest of the day, with the law of nature and 3 seconds, you can pretend to call and go fast.

When you are in front of the target, hang up the phone, contact with the other person very naturally and begin to speak:

"Hey, not Wenwen (who can be) well, so clever you are here"

The other person is generally strange or doubting, and ask you, "have you mistaken someone?" or "ah?" Like

In fact, it doesn't matter, and then go on. "We had a dinner in the red house yesterday. I was in class 3, you

It's not in class 5. Don't forget it after drinking it. (with a mocking tone)

At this time the other person generally reaffirms that you are mistaken, or if you are lucky, you will release IOI, at this time,

Just start to do it yourself.

Moving target:

It's best to move in front of you at this time, and then a little closer to the point to ensure that the target is heard.

Words: "Hello~~"

When the other person turns his head, you can say that.

"Sorry, I thought you were my friend, your back was too much like ~."

If you have enough confidence in yourself, go ahead with a big step after you finish, and then see if MM is in the light.

Have a quick pace to catch up, if a bit, that's good, you also slow down the pace, wait for MM to come up, free

Let's play it.

Of course, do not go forward after the end of the lecture, you can see the response of MM after you say this sentence, and then judge your own

How to express, in a word, as long as there is an interaction with MM, as long as you are not a man, the probability of the arrival of the number is still pretty

High.

On the other hand, in a conversation, in general, when speaking to MM, try not to

To see the face, side 45 degrees is the gold angle, but also shows the feeling is neither friendly nor aloof.

The body needs to be swayed, but do not behave as well as RAP, and do not let it be right.

Fang feels that there is a clear attempt to be OK.

Welcome to the opening of other places, we will continue to update and perfect.

Five, the two rules of opening the white

1, three second rule

Three rule is definitely useful, but not immutable and frozen execution, at least you observe the target is not

It's a boyfriend. If you're in the process, her boyfriend comes, that's a lot of trouble, so say no.

The blind hand, the first observation of the environment, ha ha, speaking of this, there is a brother told me, he hitched one

When the little MM was on the side of the mother's mother, he thought it was her sister, that sweating, you met this kind of situation, you

How strong the level of communication is, can't get it.

Blind shot is an extreme, do not hand out, this is another extreme, the rule of thumb is for three seconds

To push yourself as soon as possible, the accosted turns into a tail, and you will find that the longer you follow the target, you will be

The more feel petty, approached when once you feel petty, that don't exist. That's why,

If you find yourself unable to get out after seeing a good goal, then give up the goal and adjust it decisively.

The attitude of your own, the goal of changing the target.

2, 90/10 rule

It's in the juggling method, the juggling people think the opening part of the accosted, the conversation with the target, you

The content of the speech is 90%, the goal is only 10%, if you are like a normal conversation, you only

Provide 50% of the content, not fully provide the remaining 50% goals, the talk will enter the awkward stage, 1000

Don't talk nonsense ice, is better than not that strong. After a short opening, the reflection of the target is nothing more than that.

Species, in general, are not too enthusiastic. We must actively throw out conversations and infect targets with their own energy. place

In order to prepare more open topics for yourself, ask the target first, and the goal may be just a few short.

Sentence, the next is your performance.

When you communicate, try not to use questions, such as "where are you people", "what do you learn?"

Not only is it boring, but you are repeatedly reminded of the goal, you are not familiar with them, and you can change these questions into declarative sentences.

"I think you're a northerner, you can hear it from your accent." "you should be learning art."

Son, the feeling will be a lot better, cold reading, this time can also be sent to a great use, such as "I feel you are one."

A person who is not good at dealing with people, I see this because when you speak to me, you always hold your hands in your hands.

In front of the chest ", these are all very effective, there are a lot of forums, people can back a few.