From girlfriend to wife, in three simple steps

You are already best friends, you know very well, but when you look at it if you want more. So how do you turn in your best friend's girlfriend in?

 

First you have to find out whether he is ready for something more than a friendship. From his behavior you can understand if it is really interested in being in his life. In this respect you will notice if: you call to make your plans together to message or call you just to tell trivial things which happen, you wonder as you go plans, how are you, what have you resolved that problems you have.

If you start to feel for him more, you have to do your courage to confess it and ask him what are his feelings toward you. Most often, fear of rejection is what keeps you from doing this.

There's always risk losing that beautiful friendship that bind you, when you tell him you want more.

If however you decide to assume the risk here are the first steps trbeuie can you do:

Step 1: The most important - Offer them to get involved more

Trying to bring about something more than just friendship between you during regular meetings. Use a line that will allow you to leave a door open: "Sometimes when you feel a chill that makes me me want more. Have you ever felt that?"

Depending on his reaction you will be able to tell which will be the next step: either stay friends or try more.

Step 2: Be open an experiment

If he recunaste that could work something between you and is tempted, talk about trying to be more involved. By 'experiment' means a trial period, a month or two in which to behave like a couple, especially as you already know very well.

Even so, always be ready to retire, where you will find that things go.

Step 3: Be honest

Even if you feel something serious for him and you think your relationship will work flawless affair, tell him honestly that you're willing to "retragradezi" status girlfriend.

 

What if he refuses to get involved and tells you he just wants to stay friends?

The answer is one, but the decision is yours alone. Depending on how intense your feelings for him have a choice. If you feel that this does not affect the refusal of sympathy for him, you can continue to be friends; But if every time you meet him suffer because they do not give you a chance, it would be to go ahead and give yourself and other relationships.