Love or habit: what to take into account
The situation becomes more insoluble, when one of the partners is financially dependent on the other. A secure and measured life, which is terrible to lose, often becomes a reason to tolerate misunderstanding and coldness in relationships for many years.
Perhaps the habit deprives them of the opportunity to be happy with the person who is emotionally and physically fit in reality.
The desire to get rid of routine
Undoubtedly, the severity of relations with time goes away, and, consequently, an emotional abyss is formed between partners, which you want to fill up with something. There is a need for non-standard acts or fleeting novels. The external stimulus gradually becomes a dope, without which the irrepressible boredom overcomes - it is necessary to reflect, and whether there was a love? Perhaps she has already left, and there is only a habit with which you need to do something.
The reality is that everything new is not surprising the next morning, and boredom, coupled with disappointment and guilt, returns. It is worth thinking about the advisability of further relationships - to revive old love or leave a habit. In any case, the model of relationships will have to be revised. It is not superfluous to find new points of contact, to build common goals, to recall past past undertakings and dreams. Perhaps something is missing or not achieved - this is a chance to revive interest in each other.