Why the Bully is a Bully?

in #life6 years ago

Why some People hate so much?

Most time they even don´t know the one they hate, they just hate their attitude, appearance, or for whatever damn reason they can find.

Cause they are angry?

Sure there is a lot on this world to be angry about, to scream out like never screamed before.
More bad things we know, more the hate grows. So we need to overlook ourselves well, not make us become the hate.

Some feel helpless, like they could not make a change in this world.
Dont be stupid, everyone can make a change!! Plant a tree, help out at animal shelter, go play cards with the older generation, you wonder what storys most of them can tell, do whatever makes you happy!
Do not get the hate control you.

Why we feel like this? We are scared, fears of unknown, implemented not just in movies xD
beautiful are the hallogen lights, the signal tower for mobilephones aswell, do you care?
How about music, do you care what music does with your body?
the trash what is served as food, do you care?

What we can do to make it better?
Should we warship these people full of hate?
in my opinion there is no sence in this, fight hate with hate ... will not work.
War brings more war.

What i learned about Bullies: when you dont react, they get bored, cause they need your sad or angry reaction. How much it hurts what they say, dont show it, answer with a smile if you can.

Defend yourself when nessesary, but do not answer in hate.

Take care of yourself everyone,
there is where the change begins, by little little steps.

Dont try to take the ladder in one step ;) it takes how many steps it takes to get save to new highs.

Successful new year full of good experience to all of you!

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