I figured out something a long time ago, I am here for two reasons , do the will of god and try to be happy, i raise my children that way and basically they (both girls, i am not) could really give a rats ass what anybody thinks, now , they are both respectful and held accountable for their behavior but as far as what someone thinks about their Physical beauty , they dont ever take it into consideration.and they shouldnt nobody has the room or the right to make you feel less than perfect .