5 Steps to improve your relationship

in #life6 years ago

Communication is a key.

1.    The basis of every relationship is communication, without communication you will not achieve anything, nor will you get anything, especially if the conversation takes place in a nervous and tense atmosphere, so try to show respect for yourself and other, explain what is wrong in a single situation, do not hide what you truly think and feel.

2.   The relationship is based on many different links, one of them is obviously love and affection, but on the other side, there is also trust, common goals, passions, working on yourself and your relationship, learning the other person, combining your life together in relationship with everyday life. The point is that you need to put a lot of effort into your relationship and define what u expect, to make everything work well.

3.   The constant need to spend time with a partner, discomfort when a partner is missing at the moment, the tension caused by the fact that the partner does not sacrifice his free time for the other half, may be symptoms of addiction or a better-known obsession, and even if they are not, it is not healthy for both of you, you get into monotony, you burn out the feeling between you, you get bored with yourself, you lose contact with some friends. Closeness is needed, but you have to find some restraint in everything.

4. In my opinion, most of us have a problem with the correct behavior during the conversation. Living in a world of egoism, constant pursuit of perfection, we feel a significant neediness of sharing, what in our lives is important to us. Focused on things that we have to communicate to the other person, we forget that equally important is to listen and understand the views, opinions, situations of the other person. If you were in a situation when someone is trying to tell you something, and you are focused only on what you want to say to him/her after they would've finished it and you're looking for a moment to cut it, you should work on it.

5. When entering into a closer relationship with another person, it is worth getting to know the other person to a significant degree, because it may turn out that you have a completely different idea of how you would like your relationship to look, which direction it was heading, how would you behave with yourself, how often you should meet, what you could give up on to the other person and due to these ambiguities, it seems to you that the ground floor simply can not meet your expectations. Show each other the image of the relationship, you reach the point where you already know the needs of another person, you understand it and only when you'll try to find the core of compromises on which both of you are able to agree.



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