Thank you for your article. For the first time I realise I missed a little but important part of stoicism. One of my best friends sees himself as stoic and he talks about it if we talk about life. The thing is he doesnt change a thing in his life unless it is made necessary by outside factors. So I was a bit suprised to read here about changing what you can. My smart friend will no longer have an argument to not change what he wants to change.