No biggy :)
Well yes I guess it depends on where you come from, where I come from I would be helped in those cases, but surely if I look at my wife parrents it would be and actually WAS like you wrote, they tried to dragged her down instead of helping.

Gave you a follow as you actually interact with those spending time on your post, thats how its supposed to be, and looking forward to see more of your writing.

keep up your very good work!