Handicapped are not indeed weak. To live such a life takes strength and courage. I have met so many not only living but enjoying their life. They have turned their "shortcomings" and turned them into something positive. They can't control the cards they have been dealt in life, but they can sure decide what to do with them. :)

I think we all have a Bob in us, and we do tend to judge sometimes. But, like you say we only punish ourselves. Same like you I have done it before, but now instead I try to learn about those individuals and what made them successful. Maybe one day learning from them instead of judging will all lead us to the success we want to see in our lives.

Interesting read my friend. We should all ignore the judging Bob. :)