I totally agree it is not porn that is the issue, it is connection!

Also I love everything that you said, If I just don't believe the story it has no power over me. And definitely about the nonjudgmental environment I was around which allowed me to be more free felt very freeing, while at the same time its funny that I have had multiple other people with that non judgmental attitude towards my preferences and it still didn't happen. I think it was definitely a mix of the fact of seeing how much he liked me!

Thanks so much for sharing your views on this topic. Maybe I'm not addicted, maybe I just don't know! HAHA :)