The Giving A Fuck Paradox
The only way to surrender to reality is to not fucking care. Not caring is what will free you up to be the most effective in the things that you care about. The person who is most effective is the person who gives up needing to be effective. If you try to control everything all the time, you're going to be really limited in what you can actually do. If you just let go and let things be, you're conserving your energy for when it is right to take action. This action will most likely be more effective because you have preserved it through non action. It is a more skillful use of energy. Choose your battles wisely.
Totally agree. Not fucking caring about many things frees up a lot of time. Its not that life is to short, but simply that people waste to much time.
Great article!
Thats why i never let stuff bother me. Just let it go. Life is too short .
I definitely let things bother me for longer than I should. This is self talk as much as it is advice for others.