RE: Are You Dating A Psychopath? - Narcissists and the Women who Love Them
Sociopaths are worse because they are born that way. He will get his karma soon, if not in this lifetime, in the next or the afterlife.
At least you've done your best. These seemingly heartless people have low self-esteem/self-worth and from your story, full of anger too. People won't change until they feel the need to change and I hope it will be real soon for him.
He'd have to go through a lot of behavior hacks in order to change himself if he wanted to.
Maybe he's waiting for someone to sue him or something... But unless the women he encounters don't learn from their time with him then what he's doing will continue on and on unless someone or one of them exposes him online like in Facebook or something and it goes viral. Maybe that'd change him but who knows?
It's tough, because you're dealing with girls who don't see their own value. Many of them have not been on a date in years, when suddenly, he shows up in their lives. Thank you for helping to spread awareness of this post. I think people like him should be removed from society and sent to a remote island with other psychopaths so they can turn on each other. Women deserve better.
Yeah they do bad stuff so they should be isolated but on a positive note, it should help those girls become stronger and realize they do deserve better. Hopefully if they are overweight, they will then decide to lose weight etc... :)
I used to have a friend who's big on manipulating people, when she started doing it to me and kept trying to do such after I told her I don't like what she's doing she did a lot of nasty things. Deep down these people are just insecure and wants to be in control because they feel like they have no control at all (most likely). Oh well. So much for the friendship.
People like them should either be rehabilitated or exposed. It's looking like a power trip based on your description. He's insecure and angry with the world. That needs to be addressed too but it's going to be hard if he doesn't want to change or without a social worker/doctor (I think).
You're welcome. :) We all do every bit we can.