What you've forgotten lately is that your perspective matters! The people in your life want to hear what you think -- but they also need to hear it. You're capable of making big changes in your life, and also in the life of a close friend who's been contemplating a move. If you see a better way, this buddy is open to hearing what that could be. Cut to the chase and be honest -- but don't forget your charming diplomacy, of course. A spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down.