TRUTHS OF PEOPLE (about love and making love) Part 1

INTRODUCTION

How do we transform something, and by "something" I mean things like, a recipe for a sauce that we didn’t like so much, a belief, a "bad habit", a situation in general, If we do not know their existence?

We are A humanity and this indicates to me that the opinion of each and every one of us matters, matters a lot. Also what we say and act, according to what we think and feel, because this is generating your day to day, your week, your life, a reality made up of decisions that we take every opportunity that we have to choose, such as:
Greet a stranger, give up your seat in the subway or bus, give an hour of full attention to your plants, or your child, pet, friends, couple, turn on the TV or leave it off, take cold water or room temperature, Fight or smile, anyway.
Each of these elections form a great network, like a web, where we all help to generate it as a team always. Many times without realizing it, how other times very consciously, we generate beautiful fabrics that tell the love, the gratitude and the connection of the hands that are in the loom.
In the same way we can consciously or unconsciously generate something similar to that old dusty and unstable cobweb forgotten in a corner.

(Photo by me)

What am I doing now to weave this so-called masterpiece: Today?

EVERYONE (and by “everyone” I mean family, customs, religion, movies, magazines, social networks, philosophers, friends, society and all its aspects) want to teach us what love means and show us several examples in Different media and sometimes these examples are not so varied, in fact they are absurdly repetitive.

Then, taking back to the "know something to consciously live it, enjoy it and if you do not like it, transform it ..." we need to know where we stand today on this theme (Love), and for that we have to know every cut of this beautiful diamond called humanity.
Lets begin with this pair of questions, answering from your unique perspective:

1. what is love,?
2. What is it to make love?

I do this exercise because I want to see how I change over time taking as a reference the evolution of this pair of answers and see my history, scars, I want to see my permanent change that is also yours and not use more reference to measure Time something as cliché as the amount of candles in a cake, although I have nothing against birthdays, in fact I enjoy them a lot. But this second option is already very full of structures and guidelines.
I opt without hesitation for alternate references.

Thanks to all those who decided to participate voluntarily. It is an honor to be taught to listen and pay attention. And if you want to share, you can send me your point of view to [email protected]

And great teachers said: "see what it is", not what we would like it to be.

And people in Venezuelan streets say "the donkey is named last", when we tell a story and we name the participants, but, in this case we will not just name ourselves, we will open our heart, throw ourselves into a void and I think in this case is better That I begin:

Question 1: What is love?
Question 2: What is it to make love?

Answers:

1: "It is intimate communication with the essence of creation and the uncreated"
2: "It is the forceful and unrestrained collision of atoms, photons, seas, symphonies, by means of this experience that is a call of attention to our senses, to experience a real encounter with the present and that is a GREAT present and feel that Nourishes us, revitalizes us, loves us and without hesitation we will return love.
@aledelmundo

1: "The love in my concept is to give, give and give ... is to be the river of life that flows through each one and deliver it without judgments. In my experience is also a decision, is to decide to love every day, to undress Every day of your own judgments and shadows to see the beloved (all) as it is, a perfect mirror full of love, is life itself expressed in infinite forms, the creativity of God the creator.
2: "to make love is to relate to life, to merge with it, in every detail and to make every moment an art." To make love is to realize that everything is God and there can only be joy and gratitude. Sustained orgasm (so some teachers call it) that I think is simply being in a state of grace, gratitude ... to feel love for more and more faces Of God, to look at God in every little thing and big things that presents itself. Uniqueness. I love you"
@mercedesneher

1: "The love for me is the conscious consolidation of the desire to be with someone else, to share a piece of life, to coexist and to nourish oneself through the experiences of those who interest us"
2: "Making love is embodying the desire to be physically with someone you love from a sexual perspective"
-anonymous-
1: "I expose you that I think of love at this moment:
Love is to see the sky and give me peace, to receive hugs from people that I least expect, to give to those who need it most is to love them, to have contact with plants and animals, it is definitely love and to be full of love, is to be happy with Yourself, be sure that you want or expect from life, have the feeling of overcoming and humility at the same time; We ourselves are love. "
2: "Making love is a complicated matter, consider that when you are in love you always make love, but in reality it is the maximum connection of souls, receiving and giving your inner light through the body, breathing and knowing what happens in Making love is difficult, it's often just a matter of loving yourself, if you're there at a hundred, then you're going to be able to receive someone else."
-Anonymous-

1: "love for me today: Basically I consider that the essence of love has been lost thanks to the mercantilism that exists on it, I particularly see that people before loving a person for how it is, begin to love the person For what he has even for how his body is, not loving essence, being, his philosophies, it is very sad that there is a group of people, perhaps a small group, who hopes that love is as passionate, as effervescent as in The age of our grandparents, where there was so much selling sex, bodies, materialism. "
2: "To make love for me is the total and absolute surrender of being, it is the communication between bodies in a kinesthetic way, it is the enjoyment of being, the full acceleration of the senses.
We live in a world that sells only sex, that is why making love becomes so difficult when sex has become the easiest, basically because everything is so easy, that people no longer love so much to make love , Also make love is good conversations, good times, for me, to make love is to give love, now .. how many people make love so as I put it?
-@faustoantonino-

1: "Love is defined by the imagination of those who seek it. Personally, I believe that love is the possibility of being free ...."
2: "Making love is a moment we dedicate to the universe, to creation and I do not mean" gestation "I mean to create smiles, magic, illusions, and create concrete happiness in each caress that we manage to engage in the other is Plural, it is sublime ... "
-Yasser Kasen-

1: "I have time not to know what love is
Nor to make love ... well the closest to that I have had with my first wife and the present.
Sex .. is not making love ... sex is relief ... of many things ... of rages, frustrations, trophy…
Love… love is not a couple ... it is a more universal feeling where it encompasses everything ... it is love to ourselves, to the neighbor, to your family, to the things that surround you, nature, etc.
I think instead of feeling ... it's a state...
It’s me overcoming obstacle, limitations. . Even our own weaknesses. "
2: "We confused to make love and have sex ... sex catches you like a magnet ... because it is attraction of opposite poles
To make love ... is to unify. ... Is complemented, merged, lost, de-individualized. It is sublime and supreme expansion ... it is to be one with the other person and yet ... a cosmic explosion. .. "
-Anonymous-