Become a "chat" will learn skills: keywords chat method (1)
1.chat -- and the keyword method, in the preface!
Whether in a social setting or love, when you can have room for using keywords to chat, can help you to improve the quality of the chat, the topic of effective catch each other.
The key word here chat method is divided into two kinds:One is shallow level, the other one is deep!
Shallow layers is used to establish the basic dialogues, deep level is used to establish inner emotional connection.This article first said the shallow level, deep skills in the next article said.
For starters, and other people chat don't know how the next time, you can use this shallow levels of key skills.Because the shallow level of keywords chat method to keep the normal is just a simple dialogue and exchanges, so the battle-hardened old drivers, have been using this technique in the unconscious.
Come on!The following began detailed say this chat skills!
- what are keywords to chat?
Key words in the keyword chat method just as its name implies is: seize the topic, to maintain and perpetuate chat topic.
So, in talking to each other, talk to grab a certain keywords in the content, then according to the keywords that your reflections experience, idea, or stories and others, such as communication can maintain normal subjects.
3.keywords continue chat topic common skills
(1) Lazy to chat method: repeat words tail keywords
Chat, extract the key words at the end of the other words, then use interested in doubt voice repeat, can guide each other to continue to go on.
Chestnut:
- a: "I found a strange thing here yesterday?"
B: "what?"
A: "yeah, at that time..."
- a: "I have a friend who cheated the day before yesterday."
B: "cheated?"
A: "rightness, because he gave credence to cheat paper from winning message"
B: "what text?"
A: "' message is..."
(2). The core keywords
Seize any "key" to continue the topic of the sentence, is one of the most easy to chat with the most basic skills.
such as:
The director chewed the other said: "I today, in a good mood bad."
(keyword is this sentence: director, be scolded, the mood is bad, you can extend from the direction to the topic) :
Topic last sample:
"That your relationship with my supervisor at ordinary times?"(key words:)
"Yeah, I think, in the company have been scold, mood will be very bad all day."(key words: cursed)
"I know, when I was in a miserable mood is particularly want to eat something, you will also like this?"(key words: mood)such as:
Grab discourse core keywords, one interesting twist in-depth.
A: I'm just about...
B: so you are a literally of person...(key words: literally)
When chatting with each other, you can from each other's words, the search for you "meaningful" or "interested" keyword to extension and expansion, it can also be effective to master the key point of each sentence.
(3). The key word + related experience, thoughts and feelings, etc
Simple said is, grasp the other words in a certain keywords, and then around the keywords or others to share your story and ideas.
A: the smell of the tiramisu keep up with The Times is a bit different.(key words: tiramisu, taste)
B: the tiramisu inside and white wines,...(key words: tiramisu)
（When you catch tiramisu the keywords, say that finish this sentence after, you can bargain for more questions.For example: do you know how to do a tiramisu?Add the white wine is how to try out?And so on.For any question, you answer, and will lead to more new problems.）
(4). In common keywords, enhance the emotional relationship between each other
Grab and each other have a common topic keywords, to extend and expand the subject, to deepen your connection between feeling!
People like to talk about their interest and in the things, and to share their knowledge, experience, views and ideas, and so on.
So seize the key skills to speak quickly close to you and your partner's psychological distance, can enhance the link between each other, and can let feel more familiar with each other!
Such as:
A: I went to play football with friends in the afternoon, really cool!
B: oh, you also like football!I am play forward, what position do you play?(key words: football, common topics)
A: I'm...
B: you should like cristiano ronaldo, I like...
PS: regarding the set up the bridge of the emotional - 】 connection, I have talked about in another article, interested friends to read.
- keywords chat method of preliminary practice and master.
Keywords chat method without too many things, is to understand master logistics practice.At first, you can chat through the network to practice, so you can have more time to think, to respond to each other!
General practice is as follows:
(1) after you open chat with each other, according to the above interpretation technique, from each other's words, pick out the key words.
(2) put the keywords in your answer, by the way, add some of your own thoughts, ideas, feelings, or other related information.
(3) the next, and then from the other party in response to grab new keywords, so cycle are!More practice, you can get.
Ok, about the shallow level of keyword chat method, here!Better effect of deep chat keywords will share in the next article, attention please!