Hi. So, a few things:
I think you have some other stuff to deal with before or at least during transition. Because it's not something you can be unsure about, and I sense a degree of uncertainty in your writing. I could be wrong.
I read your posts, but many are lazy and won't without something breaking up what they will perceive as a wall of text. I understand you are writing more for catharsis than validation, but it doesn't hurt to make a bit more payouts on your posts, right?
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I can probably offer a ton of advice on this topic, but I won't do so in a comment on a Steemit post, for half a dozen reasons ...
Thank you for your reply and the link. I look forward to talking with you!