In all the post I only choose to answer the part that interests me most

How do you keep yourself from getting hurt in a toxic and abusive relationship?

Answer : though thousands of girls jump into relationships not because of love or they are lacking nothing, many today DATE due to greed or just to meet up with worldly demands.
My sister if you don't need HOW ARE YOU? it's better you keep your GOOD MORNING

How do you manage certain things you never bargained for and how are you likely to put up with a narcissist?
Before you say yes to him

• he didn't force you
• you take your time to know him
• you promise till death do you apart
• you have committed yourself
  And as far a I'm concerned many girls today don't bargain on anything in a relationship or marriage
  In terms of relationship they first thing Owerri girl will tell you is NO SEX
  my sister even if u come holidays don't you know you will watch plate after eaten?
  So it's high time you tolerate thats the only solution
  

  SMILE

  it's not funny, to read more on how a female child should protect her self I have some interesting articles on my wall you can start from
  IT'S BETTER YOU DIE SINGLE THAN TO MARRY WRONG
  follow by
  ENJOY LIFE WHILE YOU ARE SINGLE
  lastly
  YOU HAVE NO REASON TO RUSH ANY RELATIONSHIP
  Thanks for sharing @gloglo