5 Ways to attract what you want using the Law of Attraction, in this case the perfect spouse.

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Law of attraction

This post is from a recent discussion with a friend @monajam about the law of attraction. Long before the movie ever came out I knew of the law of attraction. It made sense that what we think about enough we attract.

Moving to a new town

It was only weeks before moving to a new town and new job. I start thinking about meeting the right guy in a new town. The first thing that makes sense to is to decide what type of guy.

Living in SE Texas most all the guys I knew were into drinking, rock and roll and sports. So when making my list I wrote my new husband would not drink, not care much about watching sports, and no children. The list contains more including his potential to be a millionaire.
❃ Make a list of everything about the dream man.

My friends and family thought it was funny. Why they could not imagine anyone could meet all on the list.
❃ Keep your list to yourself.

Another idea came to me

Get a blank frame, a frame without a photo so he can look the way he is suppose to. I did not have a particular look in mind.

On my side table in my bedroom the blank picture frame sits and every night I tell him goodnight. Then I begin to think really he needs a name when saying goodnight. The name Michael comes to mind, I discount that name. My sister’s husband’s name is Michael. Then I think of the name Randy.

This becomes the imaginary name for the invisible photograph. (Again you may really want to keep this to yourself.) Every night before sleep I pick up the frame and say, “Goodnight Randy”.
❃ Setup a blank picture frame, give the invisible photograph a name, say goodnight before sleeping.

Around 6 months go by with nothing happening.
If you remember from my previous post: If nothing’s happening something is about to happen.
❃ Give it time, go on with your life in the usual manner.

My roommate tells me to get out more. She asks, “How do you expect to meet anyone if you never go anywhere?” So she drags me to a book review at Rice University. The book also becomes important in my life, the title: “The Autobiography of a Yogi”, by Paramahansa Yogananda.

He is at the book review although he is not my usual type, the attraction feels strong (remember I left the photo blank). I ask him out. The rest is history and yes he met every item on the list, his name, Michael, his best friend, Randy.
❃ Get out of the house to meet others with common interests.

Last week, on August 17, 2018 we celebrate our 33rd wedding anniversary, not counting the year we live together. I posted a photograph of him in @photobe. Here is the link

Here is the list again:

1. Make a list of everything about the dream man.
2. Keep your list to yourself.
3. Setup a blank picture frame to view before sleep and give the person in the invisible photograph a name.
4. Give it time, go on with your life in the usual manner.
5. Get out of the house to meet others with common interests.
   
   
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