为了脱单 在广州内面基了4个男生|In pursuit of ending my singlehood, I met with four men in Guangzhou.

第一个我自认为我不喜欢的一枚，确实不符合审美，不过还是绅士地送我回家了，面完后，他过了三天告诉我他结束了21年单身。
第二个面完当天后，他买彩票中了6000多，请我喝了奶茶。聊了聊说不喜欢甜美型女生。
第三个面完，说我175太高了，他要找165的而他只有168。
第四个说不喜欢御姐女友，我29了毕竟，面完第二天她就找了甜妹妹妹。
我发现，尽给你们当梯子了，我咋就这么难

The first one, whom I thought I didn’t like, indeed didn’t meet my aesthetic standards, yet he still gentlemanly escorted me home. Three days after our meeting, he told me he had ended his 21-year streak of being single.

The second one won over 6000 yuan in the lottery the day we met and treated me to bubble tea. During our conversation, he mentioned that he wasn’t fond of sweet, girlish women.

The third one remarked that my height of 175 cm was too tall for him as he was looking for someone around 165 cm, while he himself was only 168 cm.

The fourth one expressed a preference against having a mature, independent girlfriend. After all, I’m 29, and the very next day, he found himself a sweet, younger girl.

I realized that I’ve been nothing but a stepping stone for these men. Why is it so difficult for me?