I don't know if it's bad timing in life or karma. I always get punished even if I don't do something wrong. I guess I am product of instant karma :P
I don't know if it's bad timing in life or karma. I always get punished even if I don't do something wrong. I guess I am product of instant karma :P
Most of the time it is just bad timing, and there is nothing to feel bad about other that the circumstance that you found yourself in through no fault of your own.. Karma only applies when there are buried feelings of guilt and sorrow within your subconscious that disrupt the peace inside you.
Sometimes those buried feelings can put you in worse situations, as we get aggravation from burying them, and feelings of anger never leads to much good.
What could be the solution for those buried feelings?
Well they need to be dug up and embraced. They are part of you that means you have to accept them and learn to not bury them. This is why counseling exists. So many people go for so many years with feelings left in a dark vault that they actually have to pay a professional to be a shoulder to cry on while they go through this process. I don't believe a person has to be a professional to know how to listen (although there are plenty of people who don't). I also don't believe that having somebody to listen to you is always necessary although it can help if there are so many feelings buried so long that it's caused depression or other mental health problems.
The solution is simple. Don't bury them. And if you realise you did subconsciously then dig them up and embrace them until they go their own way. It is easier said than done because it is a painful process but it is the only way to find true inner peace.
Thank you @beanz that was very helpful. I learned how to tackle thoughts now. :)