15 SIMPLE WAYS TO LIVE A MORE POSITIVE LIFE

in #jasmig7 years ago
  1. Surround yourself with positive people
    Try your best to let go of negative people in your life who do not want to see you
    succeed or be happy. Who do not motivate you to go out there and make your
    dreams come true. Reach out to your friends and family who are always there to
    listen to you and not judge you, who will give you their honest opinion and who
    will push you to achieve your goals. Stay connected to those positive people in
    your life who you feel content, yourself and secure with. This will help you live a
    more positive life.
    Negative people will always want others around them to be negative as well. You
    are better than this and the moment that you realize that these kind of people do
    not deserve your love and time. You will be better off and will start living a more
    positive life.
  2. Hold on tight to your faith
    For me personally having faith has helped me have a more fulfilling and positive
    life. It gives me strength and motivation and I love it. Hold on tight to your faith
    because it will keep you humble, blessed and happy!
  3. Have a hobby
    I truly believe that you need a hobby, a distraction of your everyday life. You need
    to do something that makes you happy and that doesn’t feel like work and that
    doesn’t give you stress. Having a hobby will help you feel you, specially for us
    moms. We nurture our family, we give, we worry, and we spend the whole day
    making sure everyone is happy that we at times forget about ourselves. Having a
    hobby will make you feel happy and I think is healthy to have something that is
    for you and only you.
    [19/01 1:01 pm] FREEDOM: 4. Spend more time with your family
    Spending time with the people that you love will always put a smile on your face.
    Your family inspires you to work harder everyday to give them a better future,
    your family inspires you to never give up on your goals and dreams, no matter
    how big it may seem. Your children will always inspire you to be a better
    person, to live a more positive life because you want them to live a more positive
    life themselves. Your family is already helping you live that life.
  4. Focus on what makes you happy
    Try your best to always focus on what makes you happy. Focus less on the
    negativity and focus more on the positivity things. If you can’t get a recipe right
    the first time, don’t say that you’re never going to learn how to cook but instead
    say that you will not give up until you get the recipe right. Have a positive
    mindset and you will achieve more things than you might think.
    [19/01 1:01 pm] FREEDOM: 6. Read motivational books
    I truly love reading motivational books because it makes me happy, simple as
    that. I love books that helps me have a positive mindset and truly inspires me to
    be the best person that I can be.
    [19/01 1:02 pm] FREEDOM: 7. Yell less
    Oh yelling, don’t all moms do this? yes, we do and maybe we will never stop
    completely but we can definitely limit the amount that we yell. Just find ways that
    will help you stop yelling and focus on what works for you. Limiting the amount
    of yelling will open a window of positivity because you will refocus your energy
    on finding ways to fix the issue. When I yell at my kids, my day becomes longer,
    I get more inpatient and I’m not happy at all. This is negative energy and we do
    not want this. Yell less and be more positive.
  5. Don’t compare yourself to others
    This one is a biggie isn’t it? I know I have struggled with this before and I am
    happy to say that I am getting better at just focusing on me. It feels liberating
    and I now live a more positive life because of it. This is no joke, STOP right now,
    stop comparing yourself to others, to your co-worker, other moms, your cousin,
    whoever it is that you’re comparing yourself to. STOP right now! It is not healthy,
    it will break you down and you will never feel enough, complete or happy.
    Instead
    Work on yourself, find ways that will help you stop this vicious cycle and just do
    your best to only focus on you. On your life, know that you are doing a great job,
    you will get where you want to be and you will be just fine. Not everyone will
    have the same success, the same house, the same career and you know what
    it’s okay. As long as you are happy, you feel accomplished, you’re working on
    achieving your goals, you are doing things for you and your family. You will be
    okay!
    The minute you stop comparing yourself to others, that’s the minute you will
    start living a more positive and meaningful life.
    [19/01 1:03 pm] FREEDOM: 10. Laugh more
    Laughing is so important to do because if you don’t smile or laugh, you will not
    feel or be happy. You will not feel like you’re having a good and positive day.
    Laughing makes everything better and will definitely help you towards achieving a
    more positive life.
    Taking sometime to play with your kids can help tremendously. You don’t always
    need to play with them, you can simply have a conversation with them and
    believe me you will find yourself smiling!
  6. Listen to inspirational podcasts
    I’m new at this whole podcast thing but I can’t wait to find a few good and
    inspirational podcasts that I can relax and listen to. I love the idea of listening to
    someone speak because it feels like you are right next to them , you know? so I
    recommend listening to positive, uplifting podcast and join the club.
    If you recommend any, please let me know!
  7. Give back
    You can give back in so many ways and you will feel amazing. Living a more
    positive life is not only about you but about helping and uplifting others in the
    process.
    For example:
    The clothes that doesn’t fit my kids anymore is given away to family members
    that need it or we donate it. There are so many people that are less fortunate
    than us and we need to help them.
  8. Help others
    Is there anything more rewarding than giving back and helping others? It
    automatically help you live a more positive life and fill your heart with love. Help
    others in any way that you can and you will not regret it.
    You can help others by listening, giving advice on something, helping someone
    with a recipe and the list can go on. Helping others does not necessarily have to
    be something big it can be the smallest thing and people will still appreciate it!
    Simply ask someone “Do you need help”, it can make a difference
  9. Don’t let the sad news you read and see on T.V consume you
    I do not have cable in my house but I do have internet. I for some reason get
    sucked into reading all of these horrible and sad news that really take a toll on
    me. Specially news about abusive parents, it just get me so worked up, you
    know? It’s bad and we both should stop it or at least limit it. I for once will try to
    stop reading these kind of news because it gives me anxiety and I can’t deal with
    it.
    Instead of reading sad, horrible news, focus on reading positive and uplifting
    ones. Read and watch something that will make you laugh, that will inspire you
    and that will leave you with positive and happy thoughts!
  10. Take things with a grain of salt
    Try your best not to make something small, bigger than what it is. Relax, take it
    easy and focus on something else that is worth your time.
    For example:
    You child spills something by mistake on your new rug, you obviously get mad
    and start yelling at your child. Yes, these things happen but sometimes is best to
    just say ” it’s okay but please don’t let it happen again”. Than to be angry, to
    start yelling and be miserable the whole day. Just take it with a grain of salt and
    move on happily.
    I hope you have found these 15 simple ways to live a more positive life, helpful
    and useful. We can all live a more happy and positive life if we make a few
    changes in the way we do things. This world needs more positivity, our children
    need to grow up seeing it and living it and it all starts with us!
    Don’t forget to print out this helpful and easy to remember guide that I made for. Copied from http://www.stressfreemommies.com/2016/11/15-simple-ways-to-live-a-more-positive-life/
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