"I won't advertise this on other forums I'm sorry, you can close the blog if it goes against the rules"

I'm not sure what you are referring to. Nowhere in our comments you have been asked to advertise anything.
On the other hand, you don't mind posting referral links to advertise your content.

We simply asked you to write word "Steemit" somewhere in that article to confirm authorship. Single word that you could later remove after confirmation.
It is extremely unlikely that anyone would, in the meantime, go to that article and find some tiny word written on the side unless they were looking for it.

Your refusal to perform such simple action while using strawman fallacy is very suspicious and suggest that you might have been lying and this is not your content.