Sex duration and satisfaction

For a girl to experience climax is likened to having true love, and in our present emotional world, finding true love is very rare. So for a girl to reach orgasm happens once in a while, and as such they cherish such experience because it reoccurrence is unpredictable...
So how can we take a girl to her climax? Is it a function of how long the sex lasted?
Well, it takes more than just the hours spent having sex to actually make her cum. Just thrusting in and out of her may not lead her to her climax, she may even go dry after some mins/hours of sex... So what can actually make her climax?
If your goal for having sex with a girl is to make her satisfied, pleased, and cum, then you have to pay full attention to every detail about her, from her mood to her body. You need to be certain that she's in the right mood to have sex, and then pay attention to everything you do that turns her on, keeps her in the right mood, makes her moan, if kissing her lips makes her extremely excited, repeat such more often, if it's caressing her breast, her thigh, etc makes her more excited, then focus on repeating such during the course of having sex... And you'd be surprised that even before the actual sex, she might have reached orgasm...
But due to what we feed our eyes with, seeing porn stars having sex for hours without stop, we tend to see the hours spent during sex as the key to satisfying our partner... Naturally, most men cum quick, like 2 to 30minutes, and with such sexual life are pushed to do things that would make them last longer.
They thus engage in the use of
drugs,

alcohol,

herbs

etc all in the name of having longer sex.
These present behavior have caused us more harm than good, leaving our youths mentally ill due to excess intake of sex drugs and other drugs they presume would make them last longer, the youths now suffer from hangovers due to excess intake of alcohol, and are being exploited by herbal doctors and medical doctors, by subjection such a natural phenomenon to be a health disorder, such as erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation etc. Those who do not naturally have these sexual weakness are mentally influenced to believe they do all because there are people who lasts longer during sex, but we forget to understand that we are not created the same.
I hope to see a future where the youths will not be driven into engaging in drugs, alcohol etc all in the name of sexually satisfying their partner.