Why People Succeed and why Others Fail? [Speaking My Mind]

   

Ok this post is 1 Of those Personal Posts Where I Speak from the Heart, I’m not Looking For Re-Steems or anything, I Just feel that I need to unload this thing that’s on my heart, It’s a Personal Post.  

 2012 My Mom said to me “Everything that I have I have worked 10x Harder than the normal person, nothing has ever come easy for me in this life, if I want to achieve something it is as if I must work 10x harder than the average person to achieve it”. I will never forget those words because it is as if the same curse is upon me, The Apple Doesn’t fall too far from the tree.

  

  I sometimes ask myself why others succeed and why others fail, I’ve watched many motivational movies on youtube, read Almost all the success literature and to be honest I don’t think that the deciding factor of success is hard work and brains, yes that is important, a very important recipe to the cake. I’m starting to think Success has a lot to do with Luck and being in the right place at the right time I’ll make 2 examples to back up my statement e.g1 @sweetsssj is basically printing money on Steemit, she is by far the most successful person on this platform that I have seen, not to take away anything from her success, I’m always happy to see someone succeed in front of my eyes because its great motivation but I think her success is due to “Luck” she joined the platform at the right time and she was able to grow. E.g2 Steve Jobs, Steve wasn’t Skilled, I mean he had a sharp business mind and proved to be a skilled salesman, but I think he became successful because he was at the right place at the right time, The computer was a new thing and nobody really knew how big it would become but everyone knew that this new revolution would be a big part of the future but they didn’t really know how, so he became an early adopter and that changed his life, similar to @sweetsssj, I know people will argue about Steve Jobs but that’s ok, we will converse via the comment section of this post. 

  

So what is it that I need to do to attract this luck? 

I’m still young, I have seen my friends become very successful in internet marketing. With me whenever something seems to be starting to go well, as I’m about to lift off to space a hurdle comes and takes me back to ground 0, it’s like a Big spiritual wall is always there and on that second or seconds that I’m about to lift off it pulls me right back down, each time this happens it’s like it takes a piece of me, to be honest I kind of feel hollow inside now, not hollow as in “I’m heartless” I still have a heart, I still have lots of love and respect inside me but hollow as in “I don’t care if I fail but I will keep trying, failure doesn’t hurt me anymore, I’ve been through a lot so I fear nothing at the moment” yeah.

 

If anyone is Lucky here, please teach me how I may be Kissed   Kissed by the Angel of Luck so I too may be at the right place at the right time in order for me to experience this thing called SUCCESS.