Love - Drug of life or just a bad Illusion? Or the cure of humanity?

Hello, Steemit community! This is my third publication and with great faith I hope to be heard and above all to share my ideas and to think with you ... To start, it is necessary to say that this idea has been around a long time in my head, especially when I have a frustration of love. First, to give me to understand, I would like to assume that we have all fallen in love or at least we have felt attraction for someone, in the same way, there is another kind of love, for example, the affection to our close friends and even pets. In principle, I will focus on the affection of a couple, then I will be breaking down my idea little by little, since I think that this emotion may or may not be harmful. Now suppose or imagine that suddenly that child is awakened by that beautiful feeling, love, pure and healthy as it is known ... that person forces you in some way to act and think differently and possibly your behavior suffers a slight transformation, sometimes for good or sometimes for bad, right ?, you feel the indestructible need to help or care for him / her and if that were not enough, 60% of the thoughts we have is about that person, and so So, let's not deceive ourselves, all or most of us, think things like: what will he do ?, what will he like ?, apart from me who will he like the most ?, what will be his habits ?, how will I speak? ?, Will it be worth it or forget it? Many of these questions and many others are the ones we often ask when that person invades our mind.

Similarly, we must agree that being in love is like being blinded and hallucinated in a certain way, since it is a feeling that modifies the patterns of our behavior. Personally, I love falling in love (surprisingly or not), because that emotion makes me feel that everything makes sense and connects me with the good side of life. I have seen certain follies in the name of love, who has not done them ?, For my part, I have ended up doing this kind of crazy, being a proud person, I have prostrated on the foot of love, then, it is impossible not to resist that person who makes us sigh.

Well, now here the sad thing begins, will it be like my title says? Will love be a double-edged sword? ... You have to agree, that the phrase "you are in love alone" exists for a reason, we must be mature enough and at the same time be aware of all thinking and feeling, to Do not be sad about rejection or disappointment. In this sense, it is inhuman to say that we do not care or do not care, please do not fall for deception. How many of us have not reflected over several days because of the frustration of a lack of love? Beyond the end of an illusion, there is that frustration of seeing the gray world, a dramatic silence in the heart, hurting us mentally and emotionally by a spite. It is obvious that it hurts to lose someone that way, also, another painful sensation, without a doubt, it can be the death of that person or of a loved one, which would leave you a deep and enormous emptiness.

That said, I recommend that in order to evolve as people and learn to value every moment of our life, we should know how to choose the person we deserve and above all see who is at our side in those difficult times ... Who are these people? Mom, dad, brothers, even friends and even pets. Also, if love is evil, it would be a necessary evil, or good for me it is so, that is up to each person, but my conclusion is that if we depended on love, this would be a better world, since that emotion , it does not compare with anything, it is indisputable that if you have children it makes you value and be better each day, if you have a mother or father, it makes you be grateful for their support and honor them in some way, if you have a partner, Every day you wake up with a smile and if you have love for life itself, you are far beyond what you imagine.

Live always 100% with a lot of love! Thanks for reading and a hug.