Hi Steemit! I'm Cassy - male in life, female for fun - indroducing you to my special part of life

Hey Steemit! I'm Cassy and I'm a male who likes to be female for fun and sexual enjoyment. But that's not all and it's just one part of the whole thing. I was thinking about what could I write in Steemit? What is special about me that others might be interested in? So I came up with this crazy idea. I want others to show what I like, how I became Cassy and give others ideas what they could also like as their fetish. I want to show that it's not a bad thing to do what you like even if it's strange for some people. (As long as it's not illegal of course.)

I want this to be an account with class and not just dirty language!

The idea is to make this profile unique and with class. That's not an account with porn and similar stuff but one who brings some sexual ideas and fetishes to other people who might like them or are just curious what it's about.

So this is me! Miss Cassy :)
I'm 26 years old and live in Germany. Wearing female clothes was not the first thing I discovered about myself. There was one other big thing that led to me as Miss Cassy.
At the age of 18 I evolved my submissive side more and more. It was always there but that was the time I discovered it. As I'm straight I feel attraced to women with a dominant vibe.

With the help of the Internet I found out pretty much about who I am. There is one big fetish that is the centre of every other fetish I like. Some of you might have heard of it, some of you not - giving a woman the control of my orgasms. With that I mean: When, if and how.

That might sound strange for you, but being dependend on someone about that part gives you a lot of energy towards that person. At the same time this person has a lot of power over you. That matches perfect with my submissive side. Every thought in life focuses on the controlling person. You just want to make her happy so she gives you permission.

Don't ask why you like something, just do what you like.

That's my mindset.

Who else is involved in this part of my life?

It's not easy to find a dominant woman if you are a male. You would be surprised how many submissive men there are proportional to dominant women. So I feel like I was double lucky to find one :)
We got to know each other over the Internet and besides this special relationship we grew very good friends together. Sadly we still live a few 100 km apart from each other. She is not my girlfriend but a good friend with this special relationship.

How does this relationship work?

To make it short, she is my "keyholder". She decides about my orgasms. Keyholder because normally she would have the only key to a chastity device. So I wouldn't be able to touch myself without her giving me the key. Sadly I don't own any chastity devices at the moment. Our whole system is based on trust. I have tried multiple chastity deviced but none was good enough. There are a lot of things that make it hard to find the right device. Hygiene and security are big aspects that never worked perfectly. So it didn't make sense. In the future we plan to get a PA-piercing for me. With that it's possible to wear a relatively easy chastity device with 100% security.

To earn her permissions to orgasm she gives me different tasks for our both fun and amusement. That's one thing I want to describe in my blog. We already had a lot of very exciting things and will have many more to write about. For example: I had to make a shopping tour where I had to buy and try on multiple woman clothes. While I was shopping I already wore things like bra, earrings and lipstick. It was extremely exciting and emarassing as I never showed myself as a female in public. But that's something I will be writing in another blog post.

Another thing that really excited me was a visit at her home where I did some household chores for her. Normally I am not the person who enjoyes cleaning toilets or bathrooms but doing it for her was a whole other Story.

So that were small examples how this relationship works.

_{Me shopping and trying on different dresses.}

Plans for Steemit

Steemit gives us a whole new world. We are really excited about it. I will be the one posting here but my dominant friend will be reading everything and maybe someday she will also post something, who knows :)

For Steemit she gave me a few tasks that determine how many points I earn. Points are used for a chance of an orgasm. Here is a list how I earn points: (Everything is once per week)

• Describing a word in the scene (for example femdom)
• Fantasy post (a post about my fantasies)
• My things - introducing toys and clothes I use
• Creative writing - a story written by myself with multiple chapters
• Experiences of the past

Every post gives me one point. Additionally there will be one special task every week where I can earn 2-5 points depenting on the difficulty.

As soon as I reach 10 points I am granted the chance of an orgasm. That could allow me a full or ruinied orgasm. Or I am completely denied. I will explain what a ruinied orgasm is in my other posts.

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That's it for the first post. I wanted to give a good basis for my other following posts. I hope this post gave you an idea what this account is about.

I am excited to see if there are other people doing something similar and if there are people curious in finding out more about this lifestyle. I will explain a lot of things and give a lot of ideas for others wanting to explore their submissive side.

If you have any questions feel free to ask me in the comment section!