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Hi SteemitPeople! I'm Sabina - happy, shiny and positive person, but I wasn't always like that...

This will be a little different introduction that I am used to see around here. I consider myself a little bit different than most of the people, so why not? :)

People often ask me - ok Sabina - you cannot be always happy and positive - what are you doing? Are you on drugs or something? :) :)

What I am going to tell you it is very personal and sad to write (because I am going back to the time when I wasn't happy at all), but I'm sure that there are many of you here who will find yourself in this story. And this is the whole purpose of Steemit - to find alike people and to connect with them. To give some warmth and understanding when needed.

It has all began 3-4 years ago, when I had a nervous breakdown. I was taking antidepressants, not communicating with the world about my problems, because I was feeling so ashamed, so alone in this. When I was in company of other people, I always putted a smile on my face, I was trying to be EVERYTHING to EVERYBODY. To please them, to make them love me. But the truth was - when I came home - I was alone. I thought about suicide a lot. I'm sure that if my friends will read this post will come back at me and ask me - why didn't you say anything? It was hard and I didn't want anybody to feel sorry for me (I wanted to be strong). It's hard when you are having depression to tell people that you are having it. It's not like - Hey I went to the store yesterday. :) In our community, it is almost a shame if you are suffering from a depression. You are a freak! :( So I was quiet. It was better back then…

I can now speak about that problem. Back then, I didn't have the courage to face with my emotions, with my fears, with myself. Who is gonna love me if I cannot love myself?

One day I meet the most inspiring lady I have ever seen. It turned out to be a life coach. She looked at me and asked me - do you want to make a step further in your life? I said YES (thanks God). Without her, I would be probably dead by now. I will be forever grateful and humble to meet her. She lifted me from mud, she reconnected me with my source, she teached me how to love myself again. So here is public THANK YOU - you know who you are! I love you!

From that time I AM ME AGAIN. No matter how funny it may all sound. But I really made huge transformation. Only when I admitted myself that I have problems - only then I was able to lift myself up. I quitted taking antidepressants and worked hard to be happy and connected all the time. It was just a decision that I had to make - do I want different life? YES! What do I have to do? CHANGE YOUR MINDSET. How? WITH CONSTANT TRAINING and TRANSFORMING.

Since then my LIFE IS BEAUTIFUL = LA VITA E BELLA(as my nickname) :)

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So my posts will be mostly about life (since I become life coach too in that time). I figured out that the most powerful people are those who went through the mud, through the pain in life. Those who understands who is giving and who is taking.

I will of course write some blogs about travelling around the world (since this is my goal) and food, because I always like to try-out something new and good. However, my focus will be life lesions.

I am here to help you, to give you support and motivation. To share the love and light. I would like to encourage all of you - to contact me (in chat). You're not alone. I know and understand what you're going through.

People who are suffering from depression should be treated differently. I can say from my own experiences - it is not enough to say us everything is going to be all right and then just leave us. We must show support to those people, discuss with them. They need HELP.

That would be my today's message. Wishing you all the best and sending you love.

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Sabina

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How were you depressed with such a cute face? :) Glad we have you here! Maybe check out @matko-md he also deals in mental health!

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Hihihi LOL! :) Made me laugh :) Nothing is as it seems...you can have the most beutiful face and the saddest hearth :( this is how it goes...but luckily for me - i'm out of this - now my face matches with my heart - all HAPPY :) Thanks for recommendation :)

Hey @lavitaebella It was nice getting to know. Welcome to steemit, If you are interested in paintings/sketches and conspiracy talks or talks on Prehistoric and the medieval days you should follow me :)

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Hi @awakeningartist! Glad to connect! :)

Hello ray of the sun :)

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Hello! Glad to connect :)

A big warm Steemit welcome goes out to you Sabina. :-D

Upvoted and High Pawed!
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Hihihi! Good one! I like it! High Pawed back at you :) I followed you to see what you are up to :)

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Thank you so much! High PAW!!

You're welcome and have a lovely day! :-D

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Nice to have you on board, Sabina! Follow me at https://steemit.com/@bitgeek

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Thanks! Glad to connect! I have followed you to see what are your interests :)

It's great to read that you've changed your depression into something really positive, that you're happy again and that you even became a life coach yourself to try and help others. That deserves much respect :)

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Thank you so much for such a kind words! :) I'm glad that life turned out that way - I found strength in pain! And that I can help others..is the best feeling on Earth! :) Sending you positive vibes! :)

Hello Sabina, and welcome to Steemit! And thank you for sharing your brave story of personal transformation!

This is a beautiful and truly GLOBAL community, with people from all over, each sharing their slice of life. I hope you will enjoy your time here with us! It may take a little while to find your "tribe" here, but have patience... it is well worth the effort and time!

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Thank you @denmarkguy! Really glad that I joined to this community! :) Wishing you a nice day..

Welcome to Steemit @lavitaebella!
I'm a bot-helper, and I'm created to help. Congratulations on the registration on Steem - you really like it here!
Unfortunately, I can not make an upvote of your record - my steem power is still small. But in the future I will come back and do it. If you like me, make an upvote of my comment and follow me.
Your upvote will allow you to give more money to new users, such as you. Let's make Steem better together!
I follow you, and I hope you will follow me.
All the money I earn will be donated to charity.
Steem on!

Welcome Sabina ^.^ Best of luck on steemit.

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Hi 👋 thanks! Glad to connect! 😁🙋

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Thank you my love 😍

Hi @lavitaebella Welcome to steemit community. It's very nice to meet you! Hope you enjoy creating content here. Sounds like you have a lot of fun stories to share with us in the future. I'll be looking forward to reading them!

Happy steeming!

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Hi 👋! Thanks for such a nice welcome! Will follow you to read your stories..wish you a nice day!

Welcome to steemit, happy to have you here

I am @alienposts , my real name is achraf :)
Checkout my blog posts, Enjoy your time here and let's get this party started :)

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Hi @alienposts! Thanks for nice words! Have followed you to see what you are up to 😁 Have a nice day 🙋

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Thank you, I did too

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hey! its a good post and you are doing really well in terms of votes and money side! Its a sad post, and its good you came out strong at the end! i would advice adding more pictures and showing family / friends. some of your travels , mor pictures! :)

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Wow..when you say it's good post - then I'm happy! Because you're an expert here! I will listen to your advice and add some photos..thank you for taking your time! Hope I can repay you one day ☘️☘️ Have a nice night / day (in slovenia we are sleeping alreday)..

Congratulations on your transformation Sabina and welcome to Steemit! Hopefully this community can help you to grow even more in this positive stage of your life

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Thank you @captaincanary for kind words..will follow you to see what you're up to :) nice to meet you!

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Thank you again! You have been a huge help for me since my day one here...Much appreciated! :)

Welcome, Sabina! I'd be happy to connect with you! :)

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Hi! Thanks for such a nice welcome! I see that we are already connected :) Huge thanks for resteem!! :) wish you a nice day and sending you positive vibes :)

Great post!

Keep up the great work!

kind regards,

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Thank you @blackhat! I see that we are already connected...nice to have you here! :)

@lavitaebella, Saya senang membaca coretan anda di selembaran kertas ,dengan kerendahan hati anda, saya senang sama hal yang anda tampilkan .

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Hi @sulex :) I don't understand you - so I put your post into google translate - i hope i got the right picture :) THANK YOU for kind words :) Have a nice day...hope you understand me :)

Hello there Sabina . A sad/beautiful life story you have. I wish to know you better by your post.
🎉🎉🎉Welcome to our community

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I wish you a great weekend .🌼

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Hello back to you @mikimike! Thank you for your kind words :) Glad to connect! Greetings from Slovenia to Romania! I have a few friends there :)

Great, sunny weekend! :)

Hello Sabina, welcome to The steemit family. I had a great pleasure reading your intro, I am still going through that situation, it has been 1 yr now.

I hope to get back to a happy life with the help of the community.

Followed and upvoted
Thanks to check my profile @progressivechef

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Hi @progressivechef! Really? I'm really glad that you saw my post - because I wrote it for people who are in the same situation - to help you out! How are things going on for you?

Lets be in touch ok? Find me on steemit chat.

Keep your head high buddy...we are here for you!

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Well i'm doing ok but i have been staying at home for quite a long time now. I just pray to be back to normal soon!
I'll watch out for your future post for some inspiration.
Thanks

Hey Sister. First off ❤❤❤ Second.. Welcome back to You. I look forward to reading more of your posts.

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Hey sister! I like your comment! Glad to connect! :) :) I see that you are energy worker - what are you doing exactly? Really interested...sending you love and positive vibes :)

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Its a long story but lucky I wrote it down here.

https://steemit.com/crystals/@bearone/this-is-what-i-do

My steemit life and normal life hasn't had time to merge yet but it will soon lol.

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Lucky you did! And I'm so glad that you are working with crystals! I love them! And orgonite/organite have people at homes to take away negative energy right? My friend has one at home and I wanted to buy it too...Really looking forward for more of your posts :)

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Yes! Organite/Organite does combat negative energy. Im so pleased you know about them. I feel everyone needs at least 1 piece in their home just to battle the WiFi signal. Most people dont realise the wifi frequency is harmful for our health.

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I totally agree with you! Now that we are talking - I will probably buy myself one this week! I'm visting one therapeut who is dealing with bioenergy healing and she has organites for selling...i will let you know when I will have one! Thank you so much for connecting :)

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Thank you! Let me know how you go with the organite :)

Welcome to Steemit.
Join our Slavic Chat at https://discord.gg/kStC5AH

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Thanks a lot for invitation! :) Have joined you :)

Welcome to the community! My third day here I shared something deeply personal, https://steemit.com/story/@arbitrarykitten/10-things-i-learned-from-being-homeless And was completely taken by surprise by how supportive and encouraging the community is. It is wonderful to meet you :)

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Wow! Thank you for sharing your story with us! You are brave to write it down...that takes courage! But you know what - people who are having the most difficult life stories are the STRONGEST! so - here is to us! To be strong, not to give up! I'm so glad that we connected...i followed you for more of your stories! Sending you love and positive vibes <3 :)

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Awe! Thank you so much, that really means a lot :)

welcome here ;)

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Thanks! :)

Welcome to Steemit, Sabina ! \☺/

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Hi! Nice to meet you :)

I like this post so much and can relate...I was a plate-spinning, too-many-bald-in-the-air, exhausted people pleaser too only a few years ago! So glad you came thru that and now you are here. 🤗 Upvoted and following you now.

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Oooo thank you!! It's good to know that we are alike and that transformation can be done! We must encourage others and show them a way out :) Good to connect with you! Really happy! Sending you love and positive vibes :)

Hey @lavitaebella

** Apprecited Your Work . I hope you will provide valuable content to the community **

I would like to request you please keep posting this type of valueable content for the community of steemit as this platform is growing up day by day .. I would request you that you must support new steemer like me and other .

I am in love with one of my post as a senior steemer I need your Honest feedback regadding that . If you get time from your busy life and write your comment upon it . It will be really apprecited ..*

If I missed I do Apoligize for that ...

Lots Of Love For Future Posts

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Regards Sophia Olive

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Hi there!!! You are so happy and excited in the picture. You wouldn't look the same depressed, I'm glad you are out of it.

Bell, you are beautiful. You look pretty good too. Beautiful minds think alike. Perspective and mindsets leads to better success. Love your photos. Love what you are saying. Keep up the good work.

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Thank you for kind words 🙏 Glad to connect! Looking forward to hear from you in your next post..greetings from Momtenegro 👋😁