Welcome to steemit @aaarif, one of the groups you may really like is @utopian-io they are a developer type community. If you need help learning about steemit @newbieresteemday has a large and growing group of people that try to assist new users with resteem, (of good quality), occasional votes, and comments on your post to encourage interaction. They also have a Discord Chat room. The tag they use is #newbieresteemday.

I see you already ran into some of the negative side of steemit, I hope you did not click and go to that link until someone verifies it safe. Not all tiny URL's are bad, but one must be very cautious around them.