Songwriter, teacher and artist; learning to be proud of my masculinity.

 
Hello Steemians! I'm excited to join your community. 
 
My name is Al Southgate, I've been writing, recording and performing songs for most of my life, I love to entertain and move people, I try to respect the audience as much as I respect my own creative integrity; hence my interest in pop music - in the classic sense of the term. I love to sing, play guitar, tinker with synths, record, mix and perform. 
 
My latest track
 
 
For a number of years I have worked alone but increasingly, I'm collaborating with others. Norwich UK has an excellent music scene and I'm lucky to have some extraordinarily talented friends. I play synth and sing backing vocals in the band Birds of Hell; I record and perform my solo material and I've also just started a band called Battle Schultz with a long time friend and collaborator Iain Lowery (I'm hoping he'll join Steemit soon). 
 
 
I finished my first album "The Sadtowns" in 2003, since then I have produced another album "Pimp Your State Of Mind", which is as yet unreleased. I'm currently working on a number of recordings that I'm hoping to organise into an album, or series of EPs in the near future. 
 
In 2009 I embarked on a project to write a song a week for a year, blogging about the process as I went. I'm currently curating and re-releasing those 52 songs on my new website. 
 
I'm also part of a group called One Month Album, where - you guessed it - the idea is to write and record an entire album in just one month; I've done two so far and I'm planning to do another next month (February 2018). 
 
Here's my One Month Album from March 2015
 
 
I am an avid listener to podcasts and I've made a couple of attempts to start one of my own, I'm still trying to figure out the right formula.
 
I also have an interest in graphic design, I love designing album covers, posters for events etc. I'm considering trying to develop those skills and tout my services, it's great to get paid for doing things you enjoy!
 
 
Speaking of which, I'm also a teacher; I offer private lessons to individuals and groups for guitar, songwriting, music tech, ukulele and singing. I'm in the early stages of developing online courses and ebooks relating to the teaching approaches I have developed over the last 15 years. Until recently I was home educating my two youngest daughters, I'm passionate about education in general and have been studying the Trivium Method of Critical Thinking on and off for the past 10 years or so, I gave a talk about it that's up on Youtube.
 
 
I live in Norwich, in the east of England with my partner of 12 years and my two youngest daughters, I also have an older daughter from a previous relationship that I see regularly. I try to keep fit and healthy, I'm obsessed with callisthenics and I'm just getting into kettlebells - I've never set foot in a gym!
 
 
Now the gritty stuff...
 
My desire for musical success has lead me on a journey of self discovery. I've spent much of my life faltering, second guessing my creative instincts and witnessing opportunities fade in the face of self sabotage. I've explored a number of philosophical and cultural avenues in an attempt to figure out what is "wrong" with me and why I have not been able to attract the value I desire for myself. Of late and with the help of my great friend, mentor (and introducer to the world of Steemit) @native-one, I feel like I have a solid enough answer: I've been living a life feeling guilty about my masculinity. There are a host of reasons for this that I won't go into here - though I'm very interested in connecting with others over these issues, particularly on this platform. Suffice to say, my mental and emotional health, my relationship with my partner, my intimate relationships with women in general, my children and, even the ways I relate to my self have been problematic to say the least. But, once I began learning to embrace and feel proud of what it is that makes me a man, all aspects of my life have started to improve dramatically. Let me be clear: I am human individual foremost; second, I am man with all that that entails. If you show me respect and offer your time and attention, I will be your friend. I seek to connect at the level of human individual, taking into account the many identities that stem from that principle both natural and contrived, chosen and compelled. I falter often in these roles but now I am enjoying a feeling of possibility as we enter the new year. I want to use Steemit as my means of making solid connection with others across the world, while I attempt to deepen trust and mutuality within my own immediate community. Both of these things terrify me!
 
 
Aside from sharing my love of music, I'm very keen to help others. I have accrued an enormous amount of knowledge and insight over the years and it's only now that I feel I can put it to good use. I have been involved in trying to create community, initially as a means of dealing with my own despair and sense of lack (not a recipe for success!) but now it's clear that I am, at least approaching a sense of self assuredness and integrity, I feel the time has come to help "birth" community once again. I really want Steemit to be a digital version of this and I plan to invest as much time and thought as I can spare into helping this community become a vibrant, robust and "true" social media platform, one that both respects and seeks to harmonise with Natural Law; maybe that is not possible. It's damn well worth a try though!
 
See you around. :-)
 

Here are the other places you can find me online:

http://alsouthgate.com/

http://songhacks.co.uk/

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Welcome to the coolest corner of the Internet, at least in my opinion. If you enjoy sharing your story, educating friends on things you've learned, or creating great videos & music, you should fit in just fine! I'm what they call a minnow around these parts, just like you. So we have to do our due diligence to make a splash in this huge pond. This community is very supportive and engaging, and to perpetuate that ideal, I enjoy welcoming newcomers with a warm "Hello," and some links to some cool stuff worth checking out. Again, welcome to Steemit! I hope you enjoy getting to know the place...

  1. Minnow Support Project
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  4. Upvoting Rules
  5. @thesteemengine
  6. PacMan
  7. Steemit World Map
  8. Steemit Chat
  9. Discord
  10. Dsound
  11. Dtube
  12. 💸Block Trades

I hope this helps get you started! Feel free to check out my page @mental-extract🎧, and say hello! 🍍🍍🍍 Or ask questions, I'll do what I can. Cheers!💼
Definitely following, enjoy the tunes. Great work!.

Thank you! I appreciate the welcome and the links - I'm off to do some mixing now but I'll check them out during a break. Have a good day

Very cool. Did the mixing turn out well? Glad to help.

Yeah, not bad thanks. That new project I mentioned in the post, "Battle Schultz", we've decided to make our first few releases remixes of other artists on the scene. I was working on one for Birds of Hell.

I still haven't had time to roll my sleeves up and get stuck in with the community here, I'm gradually learning more and more though - Steemit seems like a tough nut to crack at the moment.

It does take some diligence and true social networking essentially. Unless you can just buy your presence, you have to squeeze it out slowly, but I for see it being a momentum thing. I'm fairly new, but learning as fast as I can. Never hesitate to reach out or ask. I'm working hard to crack the nut, and happy to share anything I learn. :)

Great to see you on here Al. Its been a really exciting and transformative journey for me so far and there is so much to come! Now with your introduction to the platform we can officially begin to add Hither and Thither to the many dimensions already being opened up on Steemit :) I don't know a whole lot but Ive been around for a few months now so if you want to ask me anything I can try to be helpful :) x basil

Awesome, thanks Baz! I'm planning to spend some time in some chats tonight. Any suggestions?

well if you're on DISCORD then PAL is good (peace, abundance, libery) . Theres a specific music thread where some cool collaborations have spawned. I personally don't spend a lot of time time there because I find those chat sites do my head in a bit. I probably marginally prefer steemit.chat for usability but again, I havn't used it a whole lot. Someone of your qualities should definitely check out the Steemit OpenMic though. you can enter one track per week and theres a lot of great people and community around it. Follow @Luzcypher. He is the host ;P

Cool, thanks.

I just commented on someone elses thread. How do I get notified of a response?

you have a replies section on your profile page next to comments, blog and wallet and stuff. Its often the first thing I check before looking at the feed

Thanks, I'll check it out. Im used to having my hand held by super slick interfaces on other platforms, Steemit seems to require more effort

definitely. It is in dire need of a makeover.....I think it puts a lot of people off. But once you get to know the basic navigation, its all cool, because really its the community that keeps pulling you back!

heres a link to this weeks openmic https://steemit.com/openmic/@luzcypher/steemit-open-mic-week-70-record-your-performance-and-win-steem-sponsored-by-pfunk-and-luzcypher the rules might feel a bit complex, but once you've done it a couple of times it gets easier. It will be great to have your songs in the mix!

Hey 😀🙌 welcome to steemit! Enjoy your steemit journey

You can follow my blog @jofomaja on how to do creative marketing even here on steemit

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Thanks, I'll check it out.

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You got snekked is my project for Jan 2018!
I look for good content (one post) and 2 new members who I will give a 100% upvote and mention in my daily post about this project later today! I will share your link in that post hoping it will bring you even more eyes and followers.

Welcome to the Steemit platform!
I hope you will have a marvelous, slithering time here on the platform!
Have a look at @minnowsupport ! This is a community for newer members on the platform. You can also find them on Discord chat!
link: https://discord.gg/UDwKuUN
You can also find me there and in some other groups on Discord under the name Snekky!

Best wishes
Snekky

Thank you, I'm still getting my head round how everything works, I appreciate the tips.

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