You have made me think, with this entry @Improv. Because now I face a paradox my long passed, rural southern Illinois born and raised father would often summarize to me during my decision making moments with one of his endless "dad idioms" during my growing up times.

Damned if you do, and damned if you don't.

Damnit.

You may have me on this one, but I'm not conceding yet. First I need some coffee and time to chew on it. No not the coffee, the concept, silly boy.