It is an application that is interpreted very accurately by our relative aunts, who are over a certain age.
When you share the things in your life, they do not assume that you are addressing an ambiguous audience.
We have become bad people now, but none of us are aware of it, unfortunately. There's a real social life out there, folks. These are people who were able to get to know very large masses, manage social relations networks in their heads, and lead very sincere lives. It is very normal that you cannot enter the mind of a person who lived in the 70s, 80s and 90s in his youth.